Update- The State of the Drama
First up, this is not a whine journal. I'm telling the story of what's going on in my life. For the first time, really.
GF and I have a joint bank account. I am the one who included her. we did it because I have problems sometimes with numbers and a budget, and we would work together to maintain it. Sounds good.
There was a problem with paperwork (their fault) that could have lead to real problems. She brought up giving her Power of Attorney over the account.
After everything I've been through in life, this was NOT the thing to say. I immidiatly said NO! And she kept on trying to tell me what it was about! I was freaked by the idea of doing that. She got offended that I jumped at her(over the phone).
I snipped, but I DON'T want to give power of attourney to ANYONE. She thinks it's about trust. No. If we did that, it would, at least to me, ruin whatever balance we have left. I would feel like she had something on me, and everything would fall apart faster then it is.
Lj is a Goddess-gift. If I didn't have this forum, I don't know how I'd do this.
And now-
Two things. One, I am eventually leaving Ohio. There is no community for me here. Friends yes, but very few people like me. And quite frankly, they treated me like shit because I don't plan to get an operation. I find myself speculating on where my soul lies.
Second, I am seperate from my lifestyle. I seem to be missing the bi-poly from my bi-poly-pagan-geek self. I know very little, and I really want to start living who I am more throughly. Advice is requested, and welcome.
Blessed Be.
GF and I have a joint bank account. I am the one who included her. we did it because I have problems sometimes with numbers and a budget, and we would work together to maintain it. Sounds good.
There was a problem with paperwork (their fault) that could have lead to real problems. She brought up giving her Power of Attorney over the account.
After everything I've been through in life, this was NOT the thing to say. I immidiatly said NO! And she kept on trying to tell me what it was about! I was freaked by the idea of doing that. She got offended that I jumped at her(over the phone).
I snipped, but I DON'T want to give power of attourney to ANYONE. She thinks it's about trust. No. If we did that, it would, at least to me, ruin whatever balance we have left. I would feel like she had something on me, and everything would fall apart faster then it is.
Lj is a Goddess-gift. If I didn't have this forum, I don't know how I'd do this.
And now-
Two things. One, I am eventually leaving Ohio. There is no community for me here. Friends yes, but very few people like me. And quite frankly, they treated me like shit because I don't plan to get an operation. I find myself speculating on where my soul lies.
Second, I am seperate from my lifestyle. I seem to be missing the bi-poly from my bi-poly-pagan-geek self. I know very little, and I really want to start living who I am more throughly. Advice is requested, and welcome.
Blessed Be.