No one hates you, especially not Madison and myself. The only emotion we feel in regards to the recent status of things is concerned. We're concerned about you. And we're concerned about you because we care about you, because we loveyou. If we didn't, we wouldnt be worried. We wouldnt care at all. We'd just go along with it and say "whatever, man" and let things continue to spiral dangerously out of control. We CARE. You know we care. And you know that no one cares as much as we do. We've noticed that things haven't been the same lately, and we're willing to do anything possible to help make them better, and to help restore the 'good old days'. It CAN be done, it WILL be done. I know that this is probably just a phase, and, like all phases, it probably will pass..... but i cant help but feel like a bit of intervention would be helpful here. We're honestly not trying to be judgemental or critical or anything, we're just trying to understand. Because we cant help unless we understand. And we want to understand and help because we care. So, we'll work on that.
But honestly Megan, we, as your best friends, can do little to help you before you take the first steps by helping yourself. I'm still a firm believer in the notion that each of us is responsible for the events and circumstances that exist in our lives. Sure, bad shit happens for no reason, when we dont deserve it...but that doesnt mean it isn't our responsibility. Even though it's completely unfair, it's still up to US to overcome it. You've gotta at least be willing to deal with the things that Life throws your way in a positive, constructive manner. Don't see things as "good" and "bad", see them as "good" and "what can i learn from THIS?". If something hurts, or challenges, it's trying to teach you something about the subject and about yourself...you need to look for these opportunities and GROW as a result of these opportunities. And this needs to happen before outside help can be effective. The school thing is a prime example, you're only in danger of not graduating because you aren't putting the time and effort into fulfilling your responsibilities as a student. I know it's a drag, and it seems pointless and like a waste of time...but you've only gotta deal with it for 6 more months! You're on the home stretch, megan...you can deal with it for these last few months, or you can get sick of it and drop out early and fuck up your life permanently. You can't blame it on the system or on the teachers or on your mom or on ANYONE else, you've gotta take it upon yourself to suck it up and just DOOOO IT. Life is what you make of it, school is what you make of it. It's just a little bit longer and then you're free. Put up with the inconvenience for just 6 more months, or give up completely right now and live with those consequences for the rest of your life. The choice is yours. How you handle it is up to YOU to decide. But you cannot complain about being forced to make the choice, because it isnt up to us to pick the choices that present themselves...the choices pick US...and you cannot complain about the consequences of the choice once it's made.
BE the change you want to see in your life, Megan. The key is in your perception. Do NOT give up now.
We're here for you every step of the way. because we love you. And this tripod will NOT fall apart.
The only emotion we feel in regards to the recent status of things is concerned.
We're concerned about you. And we're concerned about you because we care about you, because we loveyou. If we didn't, we wouldnt be worried. We wouldnt care at all. We'd just go along with it and say "whatever, man" and let things continue to spiral dangerously out of control.
We CARE. You know we care. And you know that no one cares as much as we do.
We've noticed that things haven't been the same lately, and we're willing to do anything possible to help make them better, and to help restore the 'good old days'. It CAN be done, it WILL be done.
I know that this is probably just a phase, and, like all phases, it probably will pass..... but i cant help but feel like a bit of intervention would be helpful here. We're honestly not trying to be judgemental or critical or anything, we're just trying to understand. Because we cant help unless we understand. And we want to understand and help because we care. So, we'll work on that.
But honestly Megan, we, as your best friends, can do little to help you before you take the first steps by helping yourself. I'm still a firm believer in the notion that each of us is responsible for the events and circumstances that exist in our lives. Sure, bad shit happens for no reason, when we dont deserve it...but that doesnt mean it isn't our responsibility. Even though it's completely unfair, it's still up to US to overcome it. You've gotta at least be willing to deal with the things that Life throws your way in a positive, constructive manner.
Don't see things as "good" and "bad", see them as "good" and "what can i learn from THIS?". If something hurts, or challenges, it's trying to teach you something about the subject and about yourself...you need to look for these opportunities and GROW as a result of these opportunities. And this needs to happen before outside help can be effective.
The school thing is a prime example, you're only in danger of not graduating because you aren't putting the time and effort into fulfilling your responsibilities as a student. I know it's a drag, and it seems pointless and like a waste of time...but you've only gotta deal with it for 6 more months! You're on the home stretch, megan...you can deal with it for these last few months, or you can get sick of it and drop out early and fuck up your life permanently. You can't blame it on the system or on the teachers or on your mom or on ANYONE else, you've gotta take it upon yourself to suck it up and just DOOOO IT. Life is what you make of it, school is what you make of it. It's just a little bit longer and then you're free.
Put up with the inconvenience for just 6 more months, or give up completely right now and live with those consequences for the rest of your life. The choice is yours. How you handle it is up to YOU to decide. But you cannot complain about being forced to make the choice, because it isnt up to us to pick the choices that present themselves...the choices pick US...and you cannot complain about the consequences of the choice once it's made.
BE the change you want to see in your life, Megan.
The key is in your perception.
Do NOT give up now.
We're here for you every step of the way. because we love you.
And this tripod will NOT fall apart.
Always,
Frank
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I'm just having alot of trouble right now,
and I have NO CLUE how to deal with it.
I'm a mess.
An absolute mess.
I throw on a smile once in a while to convince people that I'm happy, but I'm miserable and knotted on the inside.
You don't know how mad I want to say fuck it and give up hope on everything.
Give up hope on life.
This is just a really bad time for me, and I'm sorry that you guys are getting the shit end of the stick.
I love you both <3
and I'm sorry for all of this.
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so there's no reason to have to deal with it alone.
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