high expectations
why is change in life so hard? Even good change? it's not without it's hardships. Especially when you're life is changing different than those around you. And people expect you to be the same and everything should be the way it was. But situations have changed and it can't be the same. It doesn't mean you regret things, or don't miss them sometimes, or not still care about people, but sometimes your life changes, priorities change, things start happening and you are bombarded with new expectations and ways to be. It's hard when people don't understand one another.
I realize it's hard on both sides, because I have been on the other side too, feeling hurt because someone's life moved on without me. But being in that situation you understand why. You understand why everyone always said family is the most important thing and your friends won't always be there. not because you don't want them to, or you can't try to be there for them...but that's how life is. You are sealed to your family for a reason. They are your number one, your top priority. it's just hard for me to see people getting upset with me because of something happy that is happening in my life, but also changes my life and things can't be the way they always were.
I'm not accusing anyone and i'm not mad at anyone, I'm more frustrated at feeling like everyone hates me and sad that people have to feel that way. but i guess i must listen to the advice so many people have tried to give me my entire life but i have a hard time listening to....you can't please everyone.
I realize it's hard on both sides, because I have been on the other side too, feeling hurt because someone's life moved on without me. But being in that situation you understand why. You understand why everyone always said family is the most important thing and your friends won't always be there. not because you don't want them to, or you can't try to be there for them...but that's how life is. You are sealed to your family for a reason. They are your number one, your top priority. it's just hard for me to see people getting upset with me because of something happy that is happening in my life, but also changes my life and things can't be the way they always were.
I'm not accusing anyone and i'm not mad at anyone, I'm more frustrated at feeling like everyone hates me and sad that people have to feel that way. but i guess i must listen to the advice so many people have tried to give me my entire life but i have a hard time listening to....you can't please everyone.