Awwww....
My workmate, who is currently planning her wedding, was just telling me a story about how she went visiting so that one of the flower girls could try on her dress (when M arrived, said flower girl was naked, but for her underwear, waiting to try on the dress), and the flower girl's 3-year old sister was going through the dresses going "Has this one got my name on it? Has this one got my name on it?" She's not one of the flower girls, so none of them had her name on it and she burst into tears and was inconsolable. You just can't explain that to a 3-year old. So M now has 5 flowergirls, up from the previous 4. Please note - this was purely M's inability to break the little girl's heart, there was no suggestion or pressure from the parent, who put the child in time out for making such a fuss.
Awwwww…..