Well then...

[gingerkiddpower]

It is so ironic how the people you thought were your best friends turn out not to be a real friend at all.  I confronted Ariel, you could say, and I just told her in a very calm fashion, "Look, I've been very upset with you.  You've been acting so different than the Ariel I knew a year ago.  That's why I haven't really been speaking to you.  I love you to death, but you need to get your act together sister.  You've been acting like some what of a whore; sleeping with other girl's boyfriends or any guy who you think is remotely cute regardless of how it could hurt other people.  And honestly?  I feel like you've taken me for granted for a while.  When you want to borrow something for me, or need something from me, I do it with out complaint.  When I wanted to borrow something from you, or needed you to do something for me, it was a big deal and you'd bitch about it or not do it at all.  To me, I see it as you just don't appreciate me and you're very self-involved.  You don't care about anyone but yourself.  I don't know if me saying this upsets you, or makes you mad.  But honestly I don't care because it is what it is, and that is how I feel."

Well, in response to that she gave me a weird look, made up a cheap excuse to leave, and did so promptly afterwards.  But you know what the beauty of it all is?  I don't care anymore either.  I said what I needed to say directly to her, let her know what was going on, and whether or not she likes it, I don't really care.  If she were to care and straighten her act up, it would be a totally different story.