well here is the short version of the last couple of days
Sunday, Hannah is sick i give her Motrin
sunday night....hannah is still sick..go to emergency
Monday they let us go....i take her back later that afternoon....we stay...
she has been pocked a shit load of times...mom cant look anymore...Tuesday we still here..they still need blood..acnt take it anymore..i tell them to stop the test..they call nurses from ER they finally get IV in her...after like the 10th attempt..
tuesday night...they finally let us go ...she is home...she has abnormal blood clott, abnormal kidney function, virus in her blood, and to top it off she has blisters inthe back of her throat..
so here is what i really want to let out...
So where is her dad in all this....WHO KNOWS...i called him to see if he could come with us to the hospital....he sais he not in the area..so i take her...i call him later that night..he is alseep....so i dont get the answers for the doctor...
after that he did not bother to call to see how she was doing so he never knew that hannah was inthe hospital for 2 days...
so then i decide to not let him come to her party on friday...here is why!!!
Ok why shoul dhe be allowed to come join my friends and family to be with his daughter in all the HAPPY events ..when he is not there for her onthe not so Happy events inher life..he missed her being born..met her in may when she was 5 months old, then came to her babptism 1 month later..then after that day he saw her a total of 2 times..he shows up whenever he feels like it..and spend a whole 5 minutes with her...
so i sent hima simple polite text message" Do me a favor ..Please dont come to Hannahs party. Thank you.
he then replies with (ughh) thining bout it....i wont...
so i reply witha simple " Gracias"
Then he takes it a step further and calls my cell phone..i push ignore so he goes toVM...he leaves me a long ass message..as to how mature he is and how hannah deserves for me to be a better mom, and how he has proven himself to everyone...and how he is so above the game...and how i should not bring anger into it..(Who is angry..i just dont think he deserves to be there on the special occasions)..had i been mad i would have been cursing at him and all this crap! oh yeah and he said he had a life and he cant ALWAYS be there for her...that was HIllarious cause He HAS NEVER BEEN THERE FOR HER...
all i had to say is BS....
sunday night....hannah is still sick..go to emergency
Monday they let us go....i take her back later that afternoon....we stay...
she has been pocked a shit load of times...mom cant look anymore...Tuesday we still here..they still need blood..acnt take it anymore..i tell them to stop the test..they call nurses from ER they finally get IV in her...after like the 10th attempt..
tuesday night...they finally let us go ...she is home...she has abnormal blood clott, abnormal kidney function, virus in her blood, and to top it off she has blisters inthe back of her throat..
so here is what i really want to let out...
So where is her dad in all this....WHO KNOWS...i called him to see if he could come with us to the hospital....he sais he not in the area..so i take her...i call him later that night..he is alseep....so i dont get the answers for the doctor...
after that he did not bother to call to see how she was doing so he never knew that hannah was inthe hospital for 2 days...
so then i decide to not let him come to her party on friday...here is why!!!
Ok why shoul dhe be allowed to come join my friends and family to be with his daughter in all the HAPPY events ..when he is not there for her onthe not so Happy events inher life..he missed her being born..met her in may when she was 5 months old, then came to her babptism 1 month later..then after that day he saw her a total of 2 times..he shows up whenever he feels like it..and spend a whole 5 minutes with her...
so i sent hima simple polite text message" Do me a favor ..Please dont come to Hannahs party. Thank you.
he then replies with (ughh) thining bout it....i wont...
so i reply witha simple " Gracias"
Then he takes it a step further and calls my cell phone..i push ignore so he goes toVM...he leaves me a long ass message..as to how mature he is and how hannah deserves for me to be a better mom, and how he has proven himself to everyone...and how he is so above the game...and how i should not bring anger into it..(Who is angry..i just dont think he deserves to be there on the special occasions)..had i been mad i would have been cursing at him and all this crap! oh yeah and he said he had a life and he cant ALWAYS be there for her...that was HIllarious cause He HAS NEVER BEEN THERE FOR HER...
all i had to say is BS....