Happiness?
" It used to be that people would leave their spouse because of violence, alcoholism, no support, serious character deficiencies, infidelity, abuse, ... you know.. like serious issues. Now I hear from men and women alike ... how they think it's just time to leave because they are not happy.
What does that mean? and why should relationships end over a temporary and largely self induced mindset? Is somebody under the impression that a quality long term committed relationship is suppose to make you perpetually giddy? Or that happiness is a quality that must be only experienced emphatically not subtly? Like BIG BANG verses cool breeze?
Practice Happiness.
Happiness is a conscious decision, a determined attitude, an openness to the nuances requiring action and understanding on your part. Generally, and ironically, those people that say they are unhappy for reasons unknown are acting in ways that would not bring happiness to the people around them either. This is in the same way that bored people are usually boring people. "
~ Dr. L Schlessinger
What does that mean? and why should relationships end over a temporary and largely self induced mindset? Is somebody under the impression that a quality long term committed relationship is suppose to make you perpetually giddy? Or that happiness is a quality that must be only experienced emphatically not subtly? Like BIG BANG verses cool breeze?
Practice Happiness.
Happiness is a conscious decision, a determined attitude, an openness to the nuances requiring action and understanding on your part. Generally, and ironically, those people that say they are unhappy for reasons unknown are acting in ways that would not bring happiness to the people around them either. This is in the same way that bored people are usually boring people. "
~ Dr. L Schlessinger