Apr 15, 2005 22:28
oo lord so ive been meaning to update this for a long time now..anyway so the other night about three nights ago i had gotten the mail and there was a bill in it so i told gary he'd better look at it. well we get home from shopping that night and gary looks at it. well for some reason , and its a good thing he did, he asked andy "did another bill come in?" and andy goes" yea..." and gary stands there for a minute and he finally asks " well can i see it?" and andy goes " ....i'll see if i can find it" and gets up as if we're bothering him!! i look at gary and i'm like...gary you better say something to him or i'm gonna go off..cause about three weeks ago i had had it with andy hiding the bills from us and i told him he needed to post them somewhere and not hide them in his room. so he put up a corkboard in the kitchen. well for some reason he didn't feel it necessary to keep on posting them every month, so he brings them out and gary had been telling him he doesn't appreciate not knowing about the bills and such and i hear andy go " well im just putting them where it's easier!" and i lost it!! i was sooooo livid i was shaking i say" no you're putting them where its easier for you!!" and he says " exactly!" i was like hell no! we need to know when a bill comes in!" and andy says " well i'm the one that writes the checks!!" (andy had credit cards and we didn't when we moved in so the bills are in his name, so we give him our part of the bill and he sends in the payment. just to clarify things)and i was like" but we need to know when a bill comes in so we can get you the money!!" and he's like well ask" i said " how are we supposed to know when to ask if a bill comes in when you hide them !?!? " and he's like you need to ask and i toootally lost it. i shot past him shouting" how dare you hide those bills from us how dare you!!!" and he's like " o my.." like a dumbass, like i have no right to be angry. i go to our room whip out a piece of paper and write " ALL BILLS MUST BE POSTED HERE FOR ALL THE HOUSEHOLD TO SEE!!" and taped it above the corkboard and went back to my room and slammed the door ..well i decided i could not sit still i was soo angry so i leave the house and slam the door ..loudly... so i take a walk i finally come back and try to eat dinner. i'm sitting on the floor in our room and gary comes in and i had heard andy spitting some bullshit about how "we all leave the lights" on to gary and when gary came back in i was like " is he saying what i think he's saying??" and i was like" gary i knew he'd pull this shit on us that's why i didn't want to bring it up to him and i was like are you gonna say something in our defense?? and of course he didn't want to so i was like fuck it i went out there and looked andy in the eye and was like " andy i do not leave the lights on i make it a point to turn them off so im not like you. so do not include me in your idiocy" and he's like " LOOK YOU BETTER SHUT UP LITTLE GIRL!!" and i lost it, once more!!!i was like " fuck you! fuck you up your ass!!" and during this he's threatening to call the cops on me and how he'll call his dad and i'll be out of there and i was like " no you can't i live here too!" and he shut up and then we got into it some more with some shouting i can't remember and somehow he stands up and gets in my face like that's supposed to intimidate me but were the same hieght and i don't back down when i know i'm right so i just look him in the eye and we go on and on he keeps calling me little girl and he's going on about if i don't like it i can get the bills in my name and some stupid shit like that..damn i remembered this a few nights ago..i knew i shoulda updated earlier. anyway i remember asking him to pleeease hit me so i can get him locked up ..oo i woulda looooved that. and i tell him i could not belive that he had the audacity ..i love that he probably didnt know what that word meant lol... to act as if we didn't need to see the bills and i said "you know next time we dont know a bill come in go ahead and pay our half that'd be great cause we're not gonna pay if you hide it one more time." ooo yea and i was like " andy everything you say is shit, you are soo full of shit!!!'" and he starts going on about how " i know i am that's the difference between you and me i know im ful of shit you just think youre always right !!" i was like no andy the difference between you and me is i won't just let anything fly out of my mouth til i know i'm right. i'm not just gonna go spouting off about shit i have no idea about!" and he gets like teary eyed and is about to say something and sits down..i'm like yea that's right. and walk back to my room and he says something to my back and im like "fuck off!!" and slam the door i grab the phone and look at gary and say ...you don't even care! and walked out the front door and sat on my walkway at 3 in the morning bawling calling my mother freaking out telling her "that's it i'm moving back!!" ..well i don't think i'll move back but eh..i knew this was gonna happen eventually