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chunlichan May 3 2012, 13:13:38 UTC
Yup, he pm'd me too. Replied & linked him to plentyoffish then blocked him. Here's a cap of what he sent me.

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anniewearslace May 3 2012, 21:26:08 UTC
lol @ "There are no Lolita dating sites!!" well duh. Bawww! there is no where on the internet for me to adopt a lolita pet!

Actually that gives me a funny image: Adopt a lolita today! The sweet comes with a little twin stars blankie and her own deco litter box :D

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dhfunk May 3 2012, 23:33:59 UTC
There actually is a lolita dating comm on lj, but it's for lesbians.

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petite_berri May 4 2012, 03:46:37 UTC
You may wish to be careful about the way you word things. As someone who was once forced into sex slavery, and part of the person's attraction to me was my being a lolita, saying "adopt a lolita pet" is a bit triggering. Also, he said nothing about sex, just wanting a girlfriend. (Not defending him- he seemed pretty creepy to me as well.)

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anniewearslace May 4 2012, 04:15:18 UTC
Did not mean that at all, no deeper meaning intended. I didn't mention sex, and i didn't intend for that to be read into that statement, i was mearly pointing out that his search for a lolita girlfriend was very dehumanizing and it seemed like he just hoped to pick one up like a puppy at the pound.

I am very sorry that that happened to you and i hope it never happens again, also sorry that my statement was offensive.

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