Sarah, Katy, Michelle, Marcy, Every freaking one.
I'm not even sure half of you will read this because your name is in the same line as someone else's. Great for that. Sarah and I are not super close and if she stops talking to me for THIS then my opinion on all of it is set in stone.
I'm not sure what started any of this but here is my view on it right now:
Everyone has done something somehow to piss someone (or everyone) else off. Some of us are just better at it. Sarah, as much as it may kick you in th eass to hear it you need to. You are not very sympathetic to other peoples feelings. You may, in person, be at first. But tell yourself the truth. If anyone (other than your girlfriend) called you in the middle of the night and woke you up-would you stay up and listen? Without bitching about it. Would you listen or sit on the computer and talk to other people? I know for a fact that people do that for you. One thing I have noticed about you is that you are overly inversted in simple relationships. You get caught and caught fast. It takes alot to get you over it too. If you gave half of that devotion to your friends things may be different for you. You would get hurt alot less often too.
I think that {to everyone} if you are not emotionally invested in your old friendship then there is no reason to constantly bring it up. If you do still have emotions about it, talk to one another -in person-not at school- about it all. If you do it at school I will be very pissed. There will more than likely be yelling and none of us need that added stress. Junior year is supposed to be the hardest so drop the fued or deal with eachother, in a rational manner. I am not involved in this but it effects me because it effects my friends.
So leave on another alone or leave everyone else alone about it.
You know that if a situation even has Caitlin on her feet then it needs to be over wiith.
I have put off saying any of this for Caitlin. I figured that if I said something about any of this then she would get sobbing phone calls about how no one cares about
I'm not sure what started any of this but here is my view on it right now:
Everyone has done something somehow to piss someone (or everyone) else off. Some of us are just better at it. Sarah, as much as it may kick you in th eass to hear it you need to. You are not very sympathetic to other peoples feelings. You may, in person, be at first. But tell yourself the truth. If anyone (other than your girlfriend) called you in the middle of the night and woke you up-would you stay up and listen? Without bitching about it. Would you listen or sit on the computer and talk to other people? I know for a fact that people do that for you. One thing I have noticed about you is that you are overly inversted in simple relationships. You get caught and caught fast. It takes alot to get you over it too. If you gave half of that devotion to your friends things may be different for you. You would get hurt alot less often too.
I think that {to everyone} if you are not emotionally invested in your old friendship then there is no reason to constantly bring it up. If you do still have emotions about it, talk to one another -in person-not at school- about it all. If you do it at school I will be very pissed. There will more than likely be yelling and none of us need that added stress. Junior year is supposed to be the hardest so drop the fued or deal with eachother, in a rational manner. I am not involved in this but it effects me because it effects my friends.
So leave on another alone or leave everyone else alone about it.
You know that if a situation even has Caitlin on her feet then it needs to be over wiith.
I have put off saying any of this for Caitlin. I figured that if I said something about any of this then she would get sobbing phone calls about how no one cares about