I think that Shige would probably get married in his 30's. Unless he really doesn't want to settle down or......*thinks of a certain, tall, lanky, NEWS member* LOL.
tehee..love your icon....AND the last part of your comment *is a slasher at heart*
yeah, it would honestly surprise me if he, or any of the NEWS members would have an "interesst in marriage" right now, with the job they do and the age (okay well, except the two oldest, but still, it's normal that they don't right now)...falling in love...is on a whole other page in my opinion. It just happens without being interessted or not, imo
hmmmm. Well, he's in love with fishing so that's one thing. LOL. LMAO right! how could I forget, that's one love in his life right there. Add the love for photography and and other members and he's pretty much in love all over the place , haha. Just like he loves your comment *points to icon* :D
Well, kinda praying that he finds a decent girl to fall in love with so I could stop imagining things here. orz. I would applaud to that wholeheartedly :D
Thank you, I read this last night and as always it moved me >.< Maybe because I think exactly the same of Shige and I found myself so much in his words...^^
I read it last night, too (lol scans came out, we read....we're so obvious hah).
I felt a bit sad for him though. I get the whole not-wanting-to-marry part (it's normal considering age and ...job LOL), but to me "love" or "falling in love" is something you can't have an interest, or non interesst about. It just happens, it often happens when we don't have an interest for it (experienced that myself) and often people who DO want to fall in love...end up searching forever.
So I had mixed feelings about it, but all in all, i thought it was a beautifully written essay to read, last night and still today :D
*stops before I end up writing a whole monologue as a comment*
You're right, I think that it's pretty obvious that for a 22 years old boy marriage is the last of his thoughts. It's the same to me...and I'm a girl XD I think that he's not interested in this meaning, that he's not searching for love...also because as you said love it's not something you can escape from ^^" When it happens it happens...but my first thought is "I fell in love...mendokusai!" too XD
Don't know why yesterday night reading it I got very sad, I'm confuse about it too.
I also have the fear that my life would be more restricted. *pets shige on the head* he's having the happy-single syndrome. my my, but he's still so young and the wide world still entices him.
my my, but he's still so young and the wide world still entices him. yeah , it's what I'm thinking , too...it's what I've been thinking since he started this whole "no need for love" campaign LOL
*laughs* do people really give others strange look when they say "no need for love"? pah! how.ruuude. I always like encountering such people, because then I can ask them "So what do you do when it suddenly happens?", and sometimes that's the start of a really good conversation going on for hours.
More than strange looks, it's people reactions. A lot of people, most of them, don't conceive a future without a couple and/or kids. I do not want a couple and much less kids & people just think that it's a phrase, you'll change... blah blah. But I'm not closed to it, if it happens, so let it be XD (still the no kids rule will be there always XDD)
and let me guess, those people are not up for talking about it either because they secretly fear, that they might understand it in the end, and well..those kind of people can't let that happen, right? and also..I came to realize that they say that about every one who has a different lifestyle than them...it's always just a phase and stuff....such sad existences with limited horizon*shakes head*...
if it happens, so let it be XD it's what I think...don't search for it, but don't fight it either is my motto. :D
We share the same view on love/marriage. LOL. Although I do believe there's a certain someone for everyone, but for myself, it's kind of a "perhaps not". xDD And no, I don't hate myself. xP
I believe that are several certain someones for everyone (and I'm saying that although I'm in a relationship)...I don't mean at the same time, but I've grown with every relationship I had (god >.< this makes it sound like I had who knows how many). So I consider all of the people in my past as "special someones". So I hope for everyone that they'll meat some "special someones" in their life, whenever that may be :)
and you didn't come across like you'd be hating yourself ;)
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I think that Shige would probably get married in his 30's. Unless he really doesn't want to settle down or......*thinks of a certain, tall, lanky, NEWS member* LOL.
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yeah, it would honestly surprise me if he, or any of the NEWS members would have an "interesst in marriage" right now, with the job they do and the age (okay well, except the two oldest, but still, it's normal that they don't right now)...falling in love...is on a whole other page in my opinion. It just happens without being interessted or not, imo
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Well, kinda praying that he finds a decent girl to fall in love with so I could stop imagining things here. orz.
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LMAO right! how could I forget, that's one love in his life right there. Add the love for photography and and other members and he's pretty much in love all over the place , haha.
Just like he loves your comment *points to icon* :D
Well, kinda praying that he finds a decent girl to fall in love with so I could stop imagining things here. orz.
I would applaud to that wholeheartedly :D
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Maybe because I think exactly the same of Shige and I found myself so much in his words...^^
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I felt a bit sad for him though. I get the whole not-wanting-to-marry part (it's normal considering age and ...job LOL), but to me "love" or "falling in love" is something you can't have an interest, or non interesst about. It just happens, it often happens when we don't have an interest for it (experienced that myself) and often people who DO want to fall in love...end up searching forever.
So I had mixed feelings about it, but all in all, i thought it was a beautifully written essay to read, last night and still today :D
*stops before I end up writing a whole monologue as a comment*
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I think that he's not interested in this meaning, that he's not searching for love...also because as you said love it's not something you can escape from ^^" When it happens it happens...but my first thought is "I fell in love...mendokusai!" too XD
Don't know why yesterday night reading it I got very sad, I'm confuse about it too.
*monologue end*
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*pets shige on the head* he's having the happy-single syndrome. my my, but he's still so young and the wide world still entices him.
thank you for the translation.
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yeah , it's what I'm thinking , too...it's what I've been thinking since he started this whole "no need for love" campaign LOL
you're welcome :D
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thanks for the translation :)
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you're welcome :)
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I do not want a couple and much less kids & people just think that it's a phrase, you'll change... blah blah.
But I'm not closed to it, if it happens, so let it be XD (still the no kids rule will be there always XDD)
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if it happens, so let it be XD
it's what I think...don't search for it, but don't fight it either is my motto. :D
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Thanks for this. ;DD
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and you didn't come across like you'd be hating yourself ;)
you're welcome :)
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