If Charles hit you, then he is the bad guy, and he should be punished for it. Saying that, if you're SURE that you're ok, and you really dont want him going to prison over it, then seperating from him is probably going to be punishment enough. You seem like a strong person, so I trust that what you're saying is valid and that you should have more control over this 'trial'.
I still totally think its beyond shit that he hit you.
I hope stuff sorts itself out soon, you've had enough crap to be getting on with in one lifetime from the sound of it.
yeah i know what you are saying, about him hitting me at all. What i meant was, in the united states at least, when there is a domestic dispute..aka two people are fighting in the home or whatever, its the fault of both parties. We were both arguing or whatnot and although he did what he did, there were circumstances that made it a lot harder for him than for me, to walk away and not fight. I think its just amazingly messed up that i had no warrant taken out on me, no report done under my name although they knew we were having a fight and that we were both responsible. He hit me yes, but honestly, without knowing anything more than that how can they make a verdict? I guess it just sucks to me to realize that the law system is set up to protect people from being physically hurt but they dont give much thought to anything else...
I am so sorry you are going through all of this. You are SO strong and will get through it all. I wish I had money to help you. Does Alice need any clothes? I could at least send some her way if that would help you in anyway. I just wish I had more to offer. But I have no family in this state either and I understand how lonely and terrible that can be. Please do not hesitate to pick up the phone and call if you need to. Sometimes it helps to hear someones actual voice!
I just want to say *something*, but I don't know what it is or where to start. Good vibes feel so useless in this situation. You need practical help and you need it now. What's the deal with the insurance? Can that be a mistake? Is there some sort of 'hardship' clause? (I know this is the US of A, so probably not... but it might be something you haven't thought of
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I still totally think its beyond shit that he hit you.
I hope stuff sorts itself out soon, you've had enough crap to be getting on with in one lifetime from the sound of it.
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What i meant was, in the united states at least, when there is a domestic dispute..aka two people are fighting in the home or whatever, its the fault of both parties. We were both arguing or whatnot and although he did what he did, there were circumstances that made it a lot harder for him than for me, to walk away and not fight.
I think its just amazingly messed up that i had no warrant taken out on me, no report done under my name although they knew we were having a fight and that we were both responsible. He hit me yes, but honestly, without knowing anything more than that how can they make a verdict?
I guess it just sucks to me to realize that the law system is set up to protect people from being physically hurt but they dont give much thought to anything else...
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im going to be alright.
im trying to take care of me, just overlook it sometimes. 3 little girls make a lot of noise and fuss.
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