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Being Happy Doesn't Mean That Everything is Perfect, it Just Means You Have Decided to Look beyond the Imperfections.
The last few months I have really changed my thoughts on alot of things, mostly on relationships. I used to just *dream* and hope for a guy to sweep me off my feet. And then when I would get played, or guys would act shady I would say "Gosh, all guys are JERKS!" And how I would never find a decent guy. And when you are in a relationship, and you fight. Ofcourse, I hated it but I think about it a lot different now. I think you grow and learn from each relationship you are in. When you fight, when things don't work out, you do NOT need to necessarily take it as a bad thing. If you turn it around, it actually can become positive. It can simply just mean, you and your partner are just not right for eachother. God has someone out there for everyone. And you might not find them right away, and the people you do meet, it probably will have it's conflicts and it may not work out. One thing, I don't think you should continue working at a troubled relationship if it's not making any progress. Sometimes you just have to let go. Keep looking. When you are fighting, it doesn't mean that either one of you are a bad person, you are just not meant to be. I've learned so much. And as of now, I don't need a guy to make me happy, not at all. I am very single, and I Love it. And I am not looking either. If something comes my way, then great and if not, oh well! I'm not sure if I explained my thoughts very well, but I tried! :)