Being conceited: Having good self esteem is one thing, but making it sound as though it's a privilege to have your attention goes a bit too far. Your shit stinks like everyone else's, and regardless of what you may heard, sleeping with you is not one of my goals in life.
Being too forceful: You should sound interested, not desperate. Desperate implies that you're horny and I'm your last-chance bang before the night ends. Also, grabbing me too hard and aggressively will not only insure that I won't be seeing you again, but also insure a heightened probability of me breaking your arm.
Being way too loud: Personally, I'm attracted to modest, quiet, and somewhat shy guys. I have very sensitive ears, so yelling at inappropriate times or all of the time will turn me off fast. When you have no volume control, it makes me wonder what other losses of control you may have, and none of those thoughts arouse me.
Being too close: Personal space upon first meeting is very important, and I have a major quirk about being too close to or having physical contact with unknown people, so it's a big put-off. We just met - there is no reason why you should be all over me. Physical intimacy is earned, not handed around freely.
Being too quick to have a relationship: Please don't rush me into something that I may need therapy for later. I'd like to get to know you for a few days before calling you "boyfriend", and don't call me your "life partner" after only a few months of dating. That only tells me that you have some issues that you need to work through, and frankly, I have enough of my own to deal with without taking on extra baggage.
The quick to a relationship thing is a deal breaker for me. It works both ways too, if I'm the one sending out marriage invites on the first date, I know something's wrong and time to take a few steps back. I think it's the, "this isn't going to work so let's just seal the deal so we're forced to work it out" thing.
Being too forceful: You should sound interested, not desperate. Desperate implies that you're horny and I'm your last-chance bang before the night ends. Also, grabbing me too hard and aggressively will not only insure that I won't be seeing you again, but also insure a heightened probability of me breaking your arm.
Being way too loud: Personally, I'm attracted to modest, quiet, and somewhat shy guys. I have very sensitive ears, so yelling at inappropriate times or all of the time will turn me off fast. When you have no volume control, it makes me wonder what other losses of control you may have, and none of those thoughts arouse me.
Being too close: Personal space upon first meeting is very important, and I have a major quirk about being too close to or having physical contact with unknown people, so it's a big put-off. We just met - there is no reason why you should be all over me. Physical intimacy is earned, not handed around freely.
Being too quick to have a relationship: Please don't rush me into something that I may need therapy for later. I'd like to get to know you for a few days before calling you "boyfriend", and don't call me your "life partner" after only a few months of dating. That only tells me that you have some issues that you need to work through, and frankly, I have enough of my own to deal with without taking on extra baggage.
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Fairwell to that!
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