Stupid rocks and hard places
Came to the realization tonight that my living at home puts a serious strain on my parent's marriage and/or happiness. It causes my dad too much stress (I don't live up to his impeccable standards of cleanliness - he is OCPD), and then my mom ends up taking the heat. And other things as well, but that seems to be a constant battle. On the other hand, my mom misses me way too much when I'm gone (otherwise she's home alone during the week), plus living at home is the cheaper alternative for me. So, do I move back to Athens where we're still stuck paying for that #$%#$@ apartment and deal with increased living expenses and extended commute on my -$ salary, or stick it out for the next couple of months and let the cycle continue? I promise I'm not trying to be a drama queen, I'd just like some ideas on this one.
... And, ironic though it may be (as Mom = counselor), the counseling/therapy suggestion only makes things worse.
... And, ironic though it may be (as Mom = counselor), the counseling/therapy suggestion only makes things worse.