With love to my f-list
I know we're not at the end of December yet but I am already taking stock of the past year and everything that has happened. There have been huge changes for me and I am well aware that not everyone here necessarily understands or feels comfortable with what I talk about these days; hell - even Louis thinks I've gone nuts! : ) I guess we have all moved in increasingly different directions of late, and that is as it should be of course, life moves on as do people and the only constant is change...
I have reached a point in my life where I am comfortable with who I am, and since this is my journal, I post about what matters to me, I am not going to pretend to be anything other than I am. I would like each one of you to be here because you are genuinely interested in being part of my life. While I don't expect everyone to comment on every single post I make, or post in their own journal all the time, friendship IS a two-way street. It's about sharing in each other's ups and downs, sorrows and joys. If someone can't/won't let me be a part of their life, I don't really feel comfortable having them reading all about mine.
Dear Kay and Kat, if you're reading this, neither of you has been around for ages, and I have to assume you've lost interest in keeping up with LJ, so I'm going to remove you from my f-list. I did the same some time ago with Lhuneldaiel and Fairy for the same reason. We shared lots of fun times and I thank you all for your friendship and wish you nothing but happiness.
I would also like to offer this opportunity to anyone who would like to do so, to quietly de-friend me, no questions asked and no hard feelings. It can be awkward I know, so I have deliberately disabled comments to this post. No one is going to be removed if they want to stay, but I refer you to what I said above. Friendship is a two-way street. If you're not comfortable with sharing your life with me, I'd rather we part ways.
Lots of love and blessings to you all and thank you for your friendship.XXXXX
I have reached a point in my life where I am comfortable with who I am, and since this is my journal, I post about what matters to me, I am not going to pretend to be anything other than I am. I would like each one of you to be here because you are genuinely interested in being part of my life. While I don't expect everyone to comment on every single post I make, or post in their own journal all the time, friendship IS a two-way street. It's about sharing in each other's ups and downs, sorrows and joys. If someone can't/won't let me be a part of their life, I don't really feel comfortable having them reading all about mine.
Dear Kay and Kat, if you're reading this, neither of you has been around for ages, and I have to assume you've lost interest in keeping up with LJ, so I'm going to remove you from my f-list. I did the same some time ago with Lhuneldaiel and Fairy for the same reason. We shared lots of fun times and I thank you all for your friendship and wish you nothing but happiness.
I would also like to offer this opportunity to anyone who would like to do so, to quietly de-friend me, no questions asked and no hard feelings. It can be awkward I know, so I have deliberately disabled comments to this post. No one is going to be removed if they want to stay, but I refer you to what I said above. Friendship is a two-way street. If you're not comfortable with sharing your life with me, I'd rather we part ways.
Lots of love and blessings to you all and thank you for your friendship.XXXXX