Query:
Is there a single event, series of events, or pattern of behavior that one can do that would cause an irreversible and permanent removal of a person from one's life?
Also, what single event is forgivable, but when does a pattern make it not?
Is there anything that will cause you to cut someone out of your life with no recourse, and no desire to even stay in contact with the person to see if they have changed? Is there anything so egregious that, by itself, it is worth never having contact with that person ever again?
Would you confront the person first, try to see if there were mitigating circumstances, or would the simple perception be enough to ostracize?
(Still kinda pissed, and for a different reason now.)
Also, what single event is forgivable, but when does a pattern make it not?
Is there anything that will cause you to cut someone out of your life with no recourse, and no desire to even stay in contact with the person to see if they have changed? Is there anything so egregious that, by itself, it is worth never having contact with that person ever again?
Would you confront the person first, try to see if there were mitigating circumstances, or would the simple perception be enough to ostracize?
(Still kinda pissed, and for a different reason now.)