Not that this is likely but...

[gelishan]

Inspired by ivyblossom and as part of my eliminating unnecessary stuff kick, I'm deleting LJs of people I haven't heard from in approximately forever from my friendslist. If I removed you and you still want to be on my list, by all means let me know and I'll add you back.

Comments

[swagmonkey]

Passive-aggressive much? She did say she'd add back people who asked, and concern about this sort of response is exactly the reason so many of us have a zillion "friends" we haven't spoken to in years.

[allerion]

Well, aren't you a bright beam of sunshine on this cloudy day. You did post this, openly, where people could see it. You made it other people's business. If you were concerned about keeping this where it wouldn't be someone's business, an LJ message would have sufficed.

As it stands, your initial message came off as not only passive-aggressive, but as an attempt to certify the righteousness of the actions that led to your schism with Lishan. IIRC, you can write and edit. It would behoove you to use those skills in future messages.

[allerion]

I know Lishan's perspective, and even played devil's advocate for your perspective even though I disagreed with them. I didn't need to know anything about the situation to see the passive-aggression in your post.

You think I'm standing up for Lishan? She can stand up for herself. My agenda here was to get you to reconsider your responses on here and changing them to something more bent towards reconciliation, because I know what you currently have isn't going to work.