Hey Shit for brains

[gelfjenn]

If you were worthless enough to have my ex read my lj entries and think i was bashing him and pumping all my friends full of hate and mistrust.. then fuck off and get off my fucking friends list you sack of shit

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[stormkitten]

Where do you find these wonderful people in your life?

[gelfjenn]

I apparently attract them.
and since according to the former friend i'm nothing but a two faced back stabbing bitch, I guess it's what I deserve. per him anyways.

[stormkitten]

Make it a New Year's Resolution. "I will not friend losers, fucktards, backstabbers, lamers, or people named Stimpy." :)

No, seriously. I do not know enough about the situation to comment, but it sounds like you're in some craptastic situations.

[gelfjenn]

Thak you for that small giggle.

Yeah. The ex friend has some worse shit hap[peneing. And all i can do is think abotu me and my pain. guess that's wrong.I don't know anymore.
I really really don't.,
*sob*

[stormkitten]

You know, you and I should go get dinner or coffee sometime, definitely, and just talk about life, love and the world. I can't honestly say I ever knew you all that well in high school, though you were fun to hang out with.

As for the rest... *hugs* Maybe it'll help if you look on the bright side and count your blessings. Instead of looking at what you lack, look at what you have, and see if that helps?

[gelfjenn]

That would be nice.
:)
I was even more out of my mind then.LOL
And you're right. I have alot. And it is good.
I need to let this mess go.
The shock of it's freash, but it wasn't unexpected.

*snort*
How cliche am I?
LOL
but you're right. And it does help alot.

[stormkitten]

Someone very wise once told me that life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. I'd say just let it go. If this person is important to you, approach them rationally and try to work it out. If not, well, they can go pound sand, can't they? People like this only have as much impact on your life as you let them have, and they can only hurt you as much as you let them.

You are the one who is in control of your own life, your outlook, and your state of being. Be the thing that happens to your life, don't let your life be the thing that happens to you, and you will find happiness.

[gelfjenn]

:) makes sense.
and they can beat sand. we tried. too many old things not fixed or resolved with new things piling ontop of them to ever go back.

[stormkitten]

Then yeah, it's time to cut the rope and let them fall before they pull you off the cliff too.

Ever considered locking your journal to friends-only?

[gelfjenn]

it is locked.
I had accidentally made two enbtries puiblic that weren't supposed to be.
fixed that but too late.

[stormkitten]

I hate that. I've dne that a time or two. I've actually been giving some thought to starting a new journal and dumping this one.

[gelfjenn]

oh?
I wont get rid of this one.
but making another one might not be that bad

[stormkitten]

*pfft* Listen to me talk like some wise old sage. I'm so full of shit. It's true, I believe that, but maybe it'd have more impact if I actually put that into practice myself. I spend too much time waiting for things to happen to me.

Hon, when is good for you? I work out by the Ag Center, so we can't be that far distant from each other.

[gelfjenn]

I live in old greenbelt. not far at all.LOL
when is good for me.. now THAT is a good question.

and hey I'm right there with you.give great sage adivce,m suck ass at applying it to my own life more often then ot.LOL

[stormkitten]

I can't do anything before Friday due to money issues, but after Friday should be OK for me.

[gelfjenn]

yes money issues. i have those too., in spades.
friday I have two bday things i'm involved with. sat house stuff.
maybe sunday but i may just sleep like the dead then
i am old ya know?
LOL
*ducks*