Ночной оргазм
Важное на ночь: тут в нашей врачебной группе обсуждали вот эту тему:
"Почему мы симулируем оргазм. Пост для мужчин., с научной точки зрения, конечно :)
Первая реакция настоящего мужчины, ну почти как у наивной чукотской девствиницы, типа - Боже мой, вы и правда это делаете женщины?
Ну а вторая, учитывая, что книжки по сексологии можно почитать не только в ЖЖ, типа плавали знаем.
Ну а третья статистика для общественности: Как вы думаете примерно какой процент женщин периодически имитирует оргазм?
Отвечу примерно 70%. Это по данным вот этого, американского естественно исследования:
J Sex Res. 2009 Aug 25:1-16. [Epub ahead of print]
Men's and Women's Reports of Pretending Orgasm.
Muehlenhard CL, Shippee SK.
Department of Psychology and Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies Program, University of Kansas.
Research shows that many women pretend or "fake" orgasm, but little is known about whether men pretend orgasm. The purpose of this study was to investigate (a) whether, how, and why men pretend orgasm and (B ) what men's and women's reports of pretending orgasm reveal about their sexual scripts and the functions of orgasms within these scripts. Participants were 180 male and 101 female college students; 85% of the men and 68% of the women had experienced penile-vaginal intercourse (PVI). Participants completed a qualitative questionnaire anonymously. Both men (25%) and women (50%) reported pretending orgasm (28% and 67%, respectively, for PVI-experienced participants). Most pretended during PVI, but some pretended during oral sex, manual stimulation, and phone sex. Frequently reported reasons were that orgasm was unlikely, they wanted sex to end, and they wanted to avoid negative consequences (e.g., hurting their partner's feelings) and to obtain positive consequences (e.g., pleasing their partner). Results suggest a sexual script in which women should orgasm before men, and men are responsible for women's orgasms.
Вот еще рекомендую картинку до кучи, на английском, но понятно, может пригодится кому:
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"Почему мы симулируем оргазм. Пост для мужчин., с научной точки зрения, конечно :)
Первая реакция настоящего мужчины, ну почти как у наивной чукотской девствиницы, типа - Боже мой, вы и правда это делаете женщины?
Ну а вторая, учитывая, что книжки по сексологии можно почитать не только в ЖЖ, типа плавали знаем.
Ну а третья статистика для общественности: Как вы думаете примерно какой процент женщин периодически имитирует оргазм?
Отвечу примерно 70%. Это по данным вот этого, американского естественно исследования:
J Sex Res. 2009 Aug 25:1-16. [Epub ahead of print]
Men's and Women's Reports of Pretending Orgasm.
Muehlenhard CL, Shippee SK.
Department of Psychology and Women, Gender, and Sexuality Studies Program, University of Kansas.
Research shows that many women pretend or "fake" orgasm, but little is known about whether men pretend orgasm. The purpose of this study was to investigate (a) whether, how, and why men pretend orgasm and (B ) what men's and women's reports of pretending orgasm reveal about their sexual scripts and the functions of orgasms within these scripts. Participants were 180 male and 101 female college students; 85% of the men and 68% of the women had experienced penile-vaginal intercourse (PVI). Participants completed a qualitative questionnaire anonymously. Both men (25%) and women (50%) reported pretending orgasm (28% and 67%, respectively, for PVI-experienced participants). Most pretended during PVI, but some pretended during oral sex, manual stimulation, and phone sex. Frequently reported reasons were that orgasm was unlikely, they wanted sex to end, and they wanted to avoid negative consequences (e.g., hurting their partner's feelings) and to obtain positive consequences (e.g., pleasing their partner). Results suggest a sexual script in which women should orgasm before men, and men are responsible for women's orgasms.
Вот еще рекомендую картинку до кучи, на английском, но понятно, может пригодится кому:
Привет всем сексологам из ЖЖ