Jul 07, 2010 11:52
[Toboe is sitting under a tree, reading a magazine]
What is really meant by a "manly man"?
1. Commitment. A strong man does not fear making promises, and will stand to them over time, despite challenging circumstances and life-changing disappointments. He remains devoted, avoids temptation, he forgives his wife's errors and asks forgiveness for is own.
2. Character. A manly man makes a show of reliable character. He doesn't make promises he can't keep. Nor will he renege once he has given his word. A truly male guy enjoys hanging around other guys.
3. Conquest. A man's man is not a quitter. He continues to solve problems. He remains faithful to his duties. He doesn't allow failure to keep him down, though he may stumble or even fall temporarily. He sets and meets goals, and helps others. He is an encourager, not a criticizer.
4. Civility. A real man makes a point of treating everyone with respect, no matter their age, status, or rank. He demonstrates self-control and restrains himself when pushed to the limits of endurance.
5. Collaboration. A manly man is not afraid to ask for help if needed. He can seek advice, ask for directions, or admit he's wrong or unsure.
[there is a moment of silence]
... I'm manlier than Tsume, then. [OH YES, HE IS THAT PROUD]
toboe