May 04, 2007 10:28
Wow, I think this is the most consistent I have been with these posts in over a year. Yay me. Anyway, when I ended my last post, I made mention of something that I wanted to discuss, but could not yet. I felt it was only fair to talk to the actual person involved before I started ranting about it on here. Well, said individual has been informed, so here we go.
I'm leaving Kelly.
Or rather, she is leaving me. By that I mean, I am going to stay here, and she is going away. It doesn't really matter what the reason is, that has brought me to this decision. Suffice it to say, I just think it's time we go our separate ways. Now, we've been here before. I've said these words before, and as far as my track record goes, this sorta talk has always just been that. Talk. Now, I don't want to air anybody's dirty laundry. Lets just say events have transpired recently that have inspired this decision. We haven't decided what do with Aiden yet. We both want him, so hopefully there's some sort of compromise we can come to. Of course I have no rights as far as the twins are concerned. And that sucks. Spend the past 3 years of my life helping raising them, and I have no say so. Not that I believe she would ever stop me from seeing them. Without saying too much, I think it's safe to say though, that I will get custody of Aiden. I feel sympathy for her, and I'd like to help her get settled here in San Diego. So that she can still see Aiden. However, that doesn't make it very easy for us to separate. I think for this to work, we really don't need to be around one another at all. So thats where I'm at now. Comment as you will.