This is a fetish club here in the mighty burg of Tulsa. They have a play party every Saturday and there's usually two or three other events through the week. Like next Friday they have a men's party, open to men only.
I think I've gone to it four or five times and each time has been an eye-opener. I'm not kinky, from what I can tell. I've had penetrative sex with two guys (my ex and another); and I've handled/touched the equipment of three others. I have a great phobia of dating a man, or expressing interest in one and being put in a position where my consent or lack thereof is irrelevant. A public sex place solves that issue for the most part - I can do sexy things and if I say no, people will stop him. Plus, at the end I can leave and go home without worrying about stalkers as much as I would if I were meeting people in bars.
Now I just have to get over my issues with people watching! Ha.
Wow! Thanks for the awesome report! I remain horribly jealous of you! But that all sounds so cool. And don't worry too much about the misunderstandings. I'm sure they happen and can be smoothed over by politeness, honesty, and respect. perhaps you could apologize to the guy's partner you kissed?
I would have loved to see the wrestling men, and whipping of Cowboy. Sounds like he has some emotions/issues he likes to deal with there. It must be a safe environment for that to regularly occur, I would think. I think you are really lucky to have found this place.
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I think I've gone to it four or five times and each time has been an eye-opener. I'm not kinky, from what I can tell. I've had penetrative sex with two guys (my ex and another); and I've handled/touched the equipment of three others. I have a great phobia of dating a man, or expressing interest in one and being put in a position where my consent or lack thereof is irrelevant. A public sex place solves that issue for the most part - I can do sexy things and if I say no, people will stop him. Plus, at the end I can leave and go home without worrying about stalkers as much as I would if I were meeting people in bars.
Now I just have to get over my issues with people watching! Ha.
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I would have loved to see the wrestling men, and whipping of Cowboy. Sounds like he has some emotions/issues he likes to deal with there. It must be a safe environment for that to regularly occur, I would think. I think you are really lucky to have found this place.
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I think I'm pretty lucky, too.
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