Jul 11, 2022 20:36
When it comes to people accept when they leave your life. Don't ask why or ask them to stay. Let it go and move onto the next chapter. Don't ask for closure. That's the stuff of books & fairy tales. Life is an experience first and foremost. It's not good or bad. Negative is just as much a part of the story as positives. Accept that.
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I don't even think the concept of "closure" works. I mean, maybe with a lobotomy. (sorry for my very dark humor)
There was a painting of birds on my mom's bathroom wall when I was a teenager that said. "If you love someone, set them free. If they return, it might be meant to be. If they don't, it was never."
I was absolutely devastated by my first love leaving me but now we're the very best of friends.
Like you said (very wisely), Life is an experience first and foremost. Exactly right, IME.
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