ANON POST

[gage]

ANON POST

So I felt like doing one of these in case people needed things to talk about stuff anonymously. I'm not really the best with words, but I'll help as much as I can. I just noticed people have been having a hard time lately and I wanted to try to help out a bit, so.

Bring up whatever you wanna. Rant, ask me questions, etc.

Comments

[anonymous]

this person is bad for me

i'm so worried breaking it off with them will be a repeat of past fuck-ups
and i'll suddenly lose all our mutual friends
because i'm a bitch or something
but i don't want to stay in the relationship anymore

[gage]

i'm sure that won't be the case, though, anon. friends are friends, no matter what. so even if you break it off with them, i'm sure they'll still be there for you.

you aren't a bitch, though. if they're honestly bad for you, then it's probably for the best? especially since, yeah, if you don't want to stay in it, then don't. there's no point in a relationship if you don't actually want to be there.

[anonymous]

i've had a bunch of friends villainize me before
which i always told myself was my own fault for not ending a certain relationship right
it still sort of haunts me to this day
"what if they were right?"
then again they acted like i was some horrible manipulator
called me a cunt
i was never malicious i was just fucking stupid
i guess i'm just terrified of it all happening again
which is why i sit on this issue, too afraid to make a fucking move

[gage]

i'm sorry to hear that anon. but... it's not your fault. you never need to think that

but... see, there you go. that's why you don't need to explain it. you weren't malicious or anything, so there's no point in worrying. it was just a mistake, in a way.

you never know what'll happen until you take the step, though. honestly, though, if they're bad for you, then you should make your move as fast as you can.

[anonymous]

thanks, bro
i'm tired of mistakes losing me friends
but hopefully all i lose here is the one that hurts
i'm tired of moving around and changing my name
tired of being scared
soooooooo tired

this did make me feel better
so thanks for the anon post

[gage]

no problem

yeah, it's never fair, but if you lose them over that, they aren't really friends, i think? like... losing a friend over a mistake is dumb. everyone makes mistakes, so friends shouldn't be lost over being human. they need to accept this fact and forgive you. something like that.

i don't blame you, it sounds rough. you must be a pretty strong person for being able to put up with all of that.

i'm glad you feel better! there's no need to thank me, it's exactly what this post was meant for, anon. ♥ if you ever need to talk again, go ahead and hit me up in AIM. my SN is "derpiest"!

[anonymous]

woah, when'd you get a new s/n?
did i totally miss that

[gage]

it just happened today, anon! you didn't miss anything. i meant to make a journal post but i just put it in my aim description on my old SN.

[anonymous]

okay!! i feel less dumb now
also just happier with giggling john

[gristbuster]

never feel dumb, anon. ♥ it was me being dumb.

and that is good! here are more john icons for your viewing pleasure, anon.