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so, i just read this girl's livejournal that was in one of my classes. in class, she used to ALWAYS talk about her bf this and bf that, and it used to get so annoying and mushy... well, apparently he just broke up with her. she's completely crushed and doesn't know what to do with her life - she's not eating, she's lonely, she thinks that everything was her fault, and she'd probably do practically anything to get him back.
it's really sad because i was in a similar situation when bryan and i broke up a few years ago.i don't think anyone had broken my heart so bad. i felt like i screwed up and i tried to get him back. i never saw him and i never talked to him. i just wished that i could talk to him before i went to sleep or see him occassionally... but i realized that it was for the better. not seeing him helped me get over him and realize that we weren't meant to be together. that's not to say i never loved him, because i truly think i did. and you never forget your first love, but sometimes it's just not meant to be.
although i haven't had a serious relationship since, i know that someone's going to come along and blow me away. the person that's meant for me will show up. i might have to wait a REALLY long time, which i'm sometimes not willing to do, but it's all going to be worth it when we find each other. i wish that everyone going through a break-up right now could see through hind-site, but unfortunately not everyone's so lucky. so to anyone out there having a hard time, do the cliche thing - try to think positive. there's going to be someone that will find you and you're meant for each other. it will happen. just give it time. think of those past relationships as stairs to the better one. it will happen.
it's really sad because i was in a similar situation when bryan and i broke up a few years ago.i don't think anyone had broken my heart so bad. i felt like i screwed up and i tried to get him back. i never saw him and i never talked to him. i just wished that i could talk to him before i went to sleep or see him occassionally... but i realized that it was for the better. not seeing him helped me get over him and realize that we weren't meant to be together. that's not to say i never loved him, because i truly think i did. and you never forget your first love, but sometimes it's just not meant to be.
although i haven't had a serious relationship since, i know that someone's going to come along and blow me away. the person that's meant for me will show up. i might have to wait a REALLY long time, which i'm sometimes not willing to do, but it's all going to be worth it when we find each other. i wish that everyone going through a break-up right now could see through hind-site, but unfortunately not everyone's so lucky. so to anyone out there having a hard time, do the cliche thing - try to think positive. there's going to be someone that will find you and you're meant for each other. it will happen. just give it time. think of those past relationships as stairs to the better one. it will happen.