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Jan 17, 2005 23:59

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marriage gothichippychic January 21 2005, 04:42:52 UTC
Sabes, yo estoy escribiendo aserca el tema del matrimono en este momento

I recently wrote:
Marriage is a compromise between two individuals who know they won't stand each other half the time but bear with the truth in order to be happy.
Marriage is an institution established by man in order to construct a societal constraint on the freedom of love. Love cannot be shackled by the rules of men. Regulations on the heart cannot be enacted. You don't have to marry someone to prove that you love them.
Don't get me wrong, I value those who get married, those who genuinely know they want to spend the rest of their days with someone else. Its a beautiful thing that has been tainted by those who fail to take it seriously. This is when it becomes an institution- when people degrade it by taking it lightly when in reality, its promising to love someone forever. Thats amazing.It becomes an established constraint when people believe they have to do it in order to prove something.
Perhaps my perception of marriage shouldn't be set in concrete because I have been hurt in love so that I can't imagine someone loving me and being faithful for the rest of their life. But thats a personal issue.
At times, we see others involving themselves with those who are so wrong for them and you can't save them from making mistakes. It pains you not to be able to point out what wrong turns they have taken. I know too many who are in love with people that are so wrong for them but who are we to judge? Love has the ability of making juxtapositions meet in the eeriest ways.

I wish the best for your sister and hope that they have a marriage that is full of respect, love and honesty. Fingers crossed she has made the right choice and your sentiments are unfounded so that he proves to be good for her.

Estoy muy contenta que estes reparando tu corazon, que es hermoso y lleno de belleza. Que bueno, mereces ser felice y curando el espiritu es el primer paso. Eres un angelito que no sabe su valor.
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Sometimes you have to fly without wings to learn how to live.

Lucy-

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