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Oct 20, 2005 17:55

Hello ducklings I have returned, to Sickened I hope you received my response to your dilema, though from the looks of it you had quite a supportive network of non-crazies. To elaborate on my response just a bit, if your friends start putting you in a killing mood, review why you're actually friends with these people, if it's because you're just ( Read more... )

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Dear Auntie Gabby, jmpierce October 21 2005, 00:49:42 UTC
To elaborate on my response just a bit, if your friends start putting you in a killing mood, review why you're actually friends with these people, if it's because you're just used to them, re evaluate your relationship. If there is some kind of frustrated love there, soothingly tell them you love them, but find that they are acting like fools, and it must stop.

sigh. I'm having a dilemna there. See, friend2 has been making my teeth ache with frustration for a year now. A full year. I can remember when it started getting dumb and it was almost exactly a year ago. And friend2 and I have been best friends since high school, so there's a deep loyalty there. But at the same time, she and I haven't been really close friends since high school. It's been a sort of 'best friends forevAr' thing without the actually having to be best friends. And it seems like, ever since senior year of high school, if we have to be around each other very much we really start to crawl up each other's respective asshole.
So now I'm sitting here thinking, "Man, I love her like crazy but shit she's been an asshole for the past six or seven years now."

So yeah. That's some sour gravy right there.

Sickened

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Re: Dear Auntie Gabby, hypriest October 21 2005, 05:40:15 UTC
funny that the who re-evaluating friendship thing should arise...

http://www.freewillastrology.com/horoscopes/aries.html

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Re: Dear Auntie Gabby, gabbycat October 21 2005, 23:08:56 UTC
Unfortunatley, even the best friendships drift apart. If there is growing resentment and frustration, may need to begin cutting ties. It does'nt mean you love her less, but sometimes the ones we love aren't good for our mental health.

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Re: Dear Auntie Gabby, jmpierce October 22 2005, 15:46:56 UTC
ain't that the truth. :(

You should totally publish an advice column.

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