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Note: The below rant was originally written a few days ago, the issues have mostly been dealt with, but are still relevant enough I want to get them out.
My husband has a knack for knowing when somethings wrong with me, after he finishes up whatever it is that is more pressing of course. Like a half-hearted attempt at getting me to come so he can jack off on my face. I'm not being fair to him, but the bastard needs to learn that when I'm upset about something, and when I don't want to talk about it, of course it's because I'm mad at him, and it'll be better for both of us if he gives me a chance to work it out myself before he starts prodding me in a vulnerable and vindictive mindset.
Sex has been a bit stale for us lately as happens in all relationships at some point. Usually for us it's just been a matter of waiting for our routines to become realigned. we're currently undergoing a phase where he wants sex at night and I want it in the morning, and since we have a girlfriend now he likes to save it rather than knocking out a quickie before we go somewhere.
Of course, that's another fundamental difference between our sex styles. I like to knock out a few quickies throughout the day, he likes to have a me love you long time all night long.
But that's not really the topic at hand right now, the current state of affairs is that the stale love life has been feeling more like sex with me is his practice ring for other conquests.
Current status of sexual affairs is that goddamn but he has been horny all the time lately, (likely on account of the new girlfriend situation) but sadly, still out of sync with me. It'd do him better not to put it off as the very last thing he wants to do before bed. Not mentioning all the times I've scolded him about the fact that sex before bed tends to leave me with trouble sleeping, he also tends to put it off until I am too tired to want to have sex, and makes a kind of huffy production of going to the bathroom to wank, that in turn wakes me up more.
Of course, the fact I don't drag him off to have sex every time I feel the itch may contribute to the problem, but he doesn't really make many moves throughout the day either, and then usually only when he's bored and I'm busy. Sex just isn't a very high priority for me, food and work are.
And now that I'm done whining about how I get too much sex, apparently, we're a few months behind on rent now.
Groovy.
I was thinking now would be a good time to push to get that spare room cleared out, because I really need the space to work, taking over half the living room and running around the house for supplies just isn't cutting it. Unfortunately, consensus seems to be no money no working with us to live up to their responsibilities, as per the usual, considering their idea of renting is magical money out of nowhere for doing nothing.
And that's about all that's bad in my life right now, no big deals, just a few minor annoyances that I should probably get off my chest and conceptualize so I can actually talk about it rather than going off on a bloodthirsty rant when my hubby annoys me.
My husband has a knack for knowing when somethings wrong with me, after he finishes up whatever it is that is more pressing of course. Like a half-hearted attempt at getting me to come so he can jack off on my face. I'm not being fair to him, but the bastard needs to learn that when I'm upset about something, and when I don't want to talk about it, of course it's because I'm mad at him, and it'll be better for both of us if he gives me a chance to work it out myself before he starts prodding me in a vulnerable and vindictive mindset.
Sex has been a bit stale for us lately as happens in all relationships at some point. Usually for us it's just been a matter of waiting for our routines to become realigned. we're currently undergoing a phase where he wants sex at night and I want it in the morning, and since we have a girlfriend now he likes to save it rather than knocking out a quickie before we go somewhere.
Of course, that's another fundamental difference between our sex styles. I like to knock out a few quickies throughout the day, he likes to have a me love you long time all night long.
But that's not really the topic at hand right now, the current state of affairs is that the stale love life has been feeling more like sex with me is his practice ring for other conquests.
Current status of sexual affairs is that goddamn but he has been horny all the time lately, (likely on account of the new girlfriend situation) but sadly, still out of sync with me. It'd do him better not to put it off as the very last thing he wants to do before bed. Not mentioning all the times I've scolded him about the fact that sex before bed tends to leave me with trouble sleeping, he also tends to put it off until I am too tired to want to have sex, and makes a kind of huffy production of going to the bathroom to wank, that in turn wakes me up more.
Of course, the fact I don't drag him off to have sex every time I feel the itch may contribute to the problem, but he doesn't really make many moves throughout the day either, and then usually only when he's bored and I'm busy. Sex just isn't a very high priority for me, food and work are.
And now that I'm done whining about how I get too much sex, apparently, we're a few months behind on rent now.
Groovy.
I was thinking now would be a good time to push to get that spare room cleared out, because I really need the space to work, taking over half the living room and running around the house for supplies just isn't cutting it. Unfortunately, consensus seems to be no money no working with us to live up to their responsibilities, as per the usual, considering their idea of renting is magical money out of nowhere for doing nothing.
And that's about all that's bad in my life right now, no big deals, just a few minor annoyances that I should probably get off my chest and conceptualize so I can actually talk about it rather than going off on a bloodthirsty rant when my hubby annoys me.