I'M MARRIED!!
If I had to choose one word to describe my wedding day, it would be FUN. If I had to choose a second, it'd be LATE. We were all supposed to be at the church at 12:00, but since my hair took a little longer than expected to style (maybe due in part to Chris's mom, a professional hairdresser, arriving to my sister's house a little late), Juice and I got there at 12:30. No big deal though; I just had to pay the flower deliverer, who'd been waiting there since 12:00. Then there was nothing to do but wait for everyone else to arrive. My mom and the groom didn't get there until about 1:30. Some guests arrived at 1:00 because I forgot to tell them I messed up and told them the wrong time, an hour earlier than it was supposed to. If you couldn't tell, the whole process of planning and actually carrying out this wedding was quite disorganized. =)
The ceremony was really nice. Sophie, Chris's youngest sister, did such a good job as flower girl. My nephew Austin read from 1 Corinthians and was absolutely spot on. Aaron actually found it in him to not be obnoxious long enough to hold the rings quietly during the whole ceremony. The music was the best part though. The wedding party and I walked in to Smashing Pumpkins "Tonight, Tonight" and Chris and I lit the unity candle and signed our marriage license to Smashing Pumpkins "Stand Inside Your Love". We exited to a jazzy, acoustic version of Foo Fighters "Everlong". The pastor, at 82, forgot the order of the ceremony, so we lit the candle after he presented us as "Mr. and Mrs. Christopher O'Brien". He also forgot the vows for me to repeat halfway through, but I thought it was cute and fun. It really took the pressure off us and I had a lot of fun after that.
Chris and his best man, Wayne
From the right: Juice, my maid of honor; Sophie, flower girl; Sinead and Naomi, Chris's sisters
The mess up. =)
Smashing Pumpkins "Stand Inside Your Love"
You and me
Meant to be
Immutable
Impossible
It's destiny
Pure lunacy
Incalculable
Insufferable
But for the last time
You're everything that I want and ask for
You're all that I'd dreamed
Who wouldn't be the one you love
Who wouldn't stand inside your love
Protected and the lover of
A pure soul and beautiful you
Don't understand
Don't feel me now
I will breathe
For the both of us
Travel the world
Traverse the skies
Your home is here
Within my heart
And for the first time
I feel as though I am reborn
In my mind
Recast as child and mystic sage
Who wouldn't be the one you love
Who wouldn't stand inside your love
And for the first time
I'm telling you how much I need and bleed for
Your every move and waking sound
In my time
I'll wrap my wire around your heart and your mind
You're mine forever now
Who wouldn't be the one you love and live for
Who wouldn't stand inside your love and die for
Who wouldn't be the one you love
Wedding Party!
Chris's peeps: Bert, Steve, Wayne, Mark, Austin, Aaron
Reception story and pictures tomorrow; I have to go to work!
xoxo