If you want to be "in the closet" - Don't talk about the Tony Awards
You know.... things keep happening in life, and the first thought I have is.... I should put that down in my LJ.... then life happens some more, and I never get around to it. I have to get better at that.
Anyway..... Random Story
So I work with this guy, Gary, in my new dept at IBM..... don't really talk to him that much, but enough to say hello, how are things..... couple times he's told me what he's done over the weekend..... going to see his son up north (I think the son is in his late twenties), and then back down here to see his daughter and her mother..... which makes me think he's either divorced, or has a kid with another woman. Either way.... none of my business.
I also got a rundown from the guy training me in this new dept about who's trustworthy and who's not...... his exact words were..... "Don't tell Gary anything..... he's like a freaking woman...... he sits there and gossips with all the girls at lunch..... I don't know.... maybe he's a closet fag"
I didn't think much of it at the time, but then I get into work Monday morning and Gary starts telling me how he watched the Tony Awards on Sunday Night. Suddenly the GayDar starts going into overload.
Quick bit of info..... Sunday night was also the final episode of the Sopranos. There was a Basketball finals game..... there was a bajillion other shows on TV that night...... But this guy sat there and watched the entire Tony Award Show. There aren't even that many good shows this year. Seriously..... was this Gary's way of coming out to me?
Anyway..... Random Story
So I work with this guy, Gary, in my new dept at IBM..... don't really talk to him that much, but enough to say hello, how are things..... couple times he's told me what he's done over the weekend..... going to see his son up north (I think the son is in his late twenties), and then back down here to see his daughter and her mother..... which makes me think he's either divorced, or has a kid with another woman. Either way.... none of my business.
I also got a rundown from the guy training me in this new dept about who's trustworthy and who's not...... his exact words were..... "Don't tell Gary anything..... he's like a freaking woman...... he sits there and gossips with all the girls at lunch..... I don't know.... maybe he's a closet fag"
I didn't think much of it at the time, but then I get into work Monday morning and Gary starts telling me how he watched the Tony Awards on Sunday Night. Suddenly the GayDar starts going into overload.
Quick bit of info..... Sunday night was also the final episode of the Sopranos. There was a Basketball finals game..... there was a bajillion other shows on TV that night...... But this guy sat there and watched the entire Tony Award Show. There aren't even that many good shows this year. Seriously..... was this Gary's way of coming out to me?