wow...
Ok so heres the situation.
Lets say person A has a job, saves her money. Now lets imagine person B. Person B works, yet saves NO money. Person A goes shopping occassionally, when its worked into her budget, and when she knows she can still make rent and pay all her bills. Person B goes shopping regularly and can never afford her ESSENTIALS, you know, food, roof, utilities. This somehow becomes Person A's problem. At one point, person B tells Person A that she has spent all her money shopping and goes through all the items she bought. Person A says “how did you pull that off” and person B gets VERY defensive saying person A had no right to ask such things.. Now lets fast forward. Two weeks ago Person A gets a phone call alerting her that Person B's car keys got left in orlando and her spare is locked in her car. Without hesitation Person A offers to call her AAA to bail person B outta trouble. Fast forward one more week. Person B gets her car towed from an apt complex in which SHE did NOT park in a visitor spot (implying this problem was at her own doing). Person B calls Person A asking her to bail her out of trouble yet again, by loaning her 80 dollars to get it out of towing place, while PROMISING to get it back to Person A on friday (when she gets paid). Person A agrees, half because she loves his person B and half because for every day the car is stored at the towing place, a 15 dollar fee is applied to the original 88. So Person A goes and gets cash out, picks up Person B, drives Person B to the car towing place, bails her out of trouble. Well see, person B also owes Person A 22.94 other dollars, from previous events. Person A is quitting her job and wants her credit cards paid off before making that decision. Person A informs Person B that she needs all 102.94 that she is owed by friday in a form of a check so she can deposit it. AFter much debate, Person B agrees and delivers the check. Basically throwing the check at person A and then storming off, as if person A did person B an inconvenience by asking for HER OWN MONEY BACK. Now lets fast forward a few days. Person B calls Person A and asks for Person A's gas jugs, in which case Person A does not have them. Person B gets an aggitated tone which only grows more aggitated when Person A alerts Person B that she is busy out to dinner with her roommates family. Person A boils over in anger for her entire meal. It occurs to Person A that she is constantly walked all over by Person B and it needs to end. The sad part is, all friends agree with Person A but none of them say anything to Person B about it, so person A just looks like an asshole. So when Person A gets home she finds out some more shit that just infuriates her even more. She decides its time to confront person B. She messages Person B this message :
Person A: Person B, let me explain something to u.. I am sorry that i was out with chelseas mother and family and could not talk on the phone. or that I couldnt drop my world and run and get u gas or that i didnt have those stupid gas containers. but after the bullshit u gave me about NEEDING my money back i didnt feel like i should ask to be taken home to go help u out. and then when u gave ur typical bitchy attitude when i tried to hang up the phone, i grew even more mad.. i am SOOO sorry that me needing MY money back caused you problems, but you are NOT The only person with money issues, and i am not ur personal bank, i dont loan money to see back when its easily convenient for u, banks charge interest for that shit..i have helped you out financially every way i can for over a year now, and think back to the time i asked how u kept affording shopping, and the fight we got in, where you said "its none of your business, that doenst concern you".. yet somehow it concerns me when u get into a sticky bind. i love being able to help you but not when u are going to give me shit about needing my money back. nor can i help it if u call me and i am unavailable.. that is NOT my problem allll the time. but the rudeness in which u gave me that check and the tone of voice u took on the phone are completely unfuckin necessary.. NOT when people constantly do YOU favors... and just like its none of my business where you spent ur money or "how u pulled that off", i shouldnt NEED to explain to you WHY i need MY money back.
Now, this is where it gets good. Person B does her usual shit and flips out, however this time she crossed many lines.. Here is Person B’s response
Person B: wow.. what can I say.. me getting off the phone with you today was not bitchy ness towards you. I am sorry if I was a little aggravated at the moment. That was not aggravation to you.. that was aggravation at the fact that I was in the middle of frenchtown with no gas.. I was calling you to come and help me.. I just wanted to know if you still had the gas cans so that I could borrow one. When you said no that was it. PERSON WHOS NAME HAS BEEN DELETED was there with me. It wasn't that big of a deal.. I don't understand where you got your bitchy feelings from and I would appreciate it if you never talked to me again. Because after that bullshit I am done with the whole thing.. We try to make up.. we try to remain friends.. but frankly I am tired of the bull shit. And I mean "I wasn't calling you to come and help me”
Ok hi, FUCK YOU. I don’t understand how a person can be such an awful bitch. Person A helped YOUUUUU out time and time again, and when she finally reached a breaking point, you’re going to terminate a friendship? Lets explain something shall we? All your friends talk shit about you and your money problems. None of them are even willing to help you out anymore, yet Person A still continued to, stupidddd girl. Yet when Person A ran into some problems and needed her OWN money back, you had the balls to give her shit? Person A should of taken everyones advice and told you to shove it and a simple “no” everytime you asked for shit.. Lesson learned..
Lets say person A has a job, saves her money. Now lets imagine person B. Person B works, yet saves NO money. Person A goes shopping occassionally, when its worked into her budget, and when she knows she can still make rent and pay all her bills. Person B goes shopping regularly and can never afford her ESSENTIALS, you know, food, roof, utilities. This somehow becomes Person A's problem. At one point, person B tells Person A that she has spent all her money shopping and goes through all the items she bought. Person A says “how did you pull that off” and person B gets VERY defensive saying person A had no right to ask such things.. Now lets fast forward. Two weeks ago Person A gets a phone call alerting her that Person B's car keys got left in orlando and her spare is locked in her car. Without hesitation Person A offers to call her AAA to bail person B outta trouble. Fast forward one more week. Person B gets her car towed from an apt complex in which SHE did NOT park in a visitor spot (implying this problem was at her own doing). Person B calls Person A asking her to bail her out of trouble yet again, by loaning her 80 dollars to get it out of towing place, while PROMISING to get it back to Person A on friday (when she gets paid). Person A agrees, half because she loves his person B and half because for every day the car is stored at the towing place, a 15 dollar fee is applied to the original 88. So Person A goes and gets cash out, picks up Person B, drives Person B to the car towing place, bails her out of trouble. Well see, person B also owes Person A 22.94 other dollars, from previous events. Person A is quitting her job and wants her credit cards paid off before making that decision. Person A informs Person B that she needs all 102.94 that she is owed by friday in a form of a check so she can deposit it. AFter much debate, Person B agrees and delivers the check. Basically throwing the check at person A and then storming off, as if person A did person B an inconvenience by asking for HER OWN MONEY BACK. Now lets fast forward a few days. Person B calls Person A and asks for Person A's gas jugs, in which case Person A does not have them. Person B gets an aggitated tone which only grows more aggitated when Person A alerts Person B that she is busy out to dinner with her roommates family. Person A boils over in anger for her entire meal. It occurs to Person A that she is constantly walked all over by Person B and it needs to end. The sad part is, all friends agree with Person A but none of them say anything to Person B about it, so person A just looks like an asshole. So when Person A gets home she finds out some more shit that just infuriates her even more. She decides its time to confront person B. She messages Person B this message :
Person A: Person B, let me explain something to u.. I am sorry that i was out with chelseas mother and family and could not talk on the phone. or that I couldnt drop my world and run and get u gas or that i didnt have those stupid gas containers. but after the bullshit u gave me about NEEDING my money back i didnt feel like i should ask to be taken home to go help u out. and then when u gave ur typical bitchy attitude when i tried to hang up the phone, i grew even more mad.. i am SOOO sorry that me needing MY money back caused you problems, but you are NOT The only person with money issues, and i am not ur personal bank, i dont loan money to see back when its easily convenient for u, banks charge interest for that shit..i have helped you out financially every way i can for over a year now, and think back to the time i asked how u kept affording shopping, and the fight we got in, where you said "its none of your business, that doenst concern you".. yet somehow it concerns me when u get into a sticky bind. i love being able to help you but not when u are going to give me shit about needing my money back. nor can i help it if u call me and i am unavailable.. that is NOT my problem allll the time. but the rudeness in which u gave me that check and the tone of voice u took on the phone are completely unfuckin necessary.. NOT when people constantly do YOU favors... and just like its none of my business where you spent ur money or "how u pulled that off", i shouldnt NEED to explain to you WHY i need MY money back.
Now, this is where it gets good. Person B does her usual shit and flips out, however this time she crossed many lines.. Here is Person B’s response
Person B: wow.. what can I say.. me getting off the phone with you today was not bitchy ness towards you. I am sorry if I was a little aggravated at the moment. That was not aggravation to you.. that was aggravation at the fact that I was in the middle of frenchtown with no gas.. I was calling you to come and help me.. I just wanted to know if you still had the gas cans so that I could borrow one. When you said no that was it. PERSON WHOS NAME HAS BEEN DELETED was there with me. It wasn't that big of a deal.. I don't understand where you got your bitchy feelings from and I would appreciate it if you never talked to me again. Because after that bullshit I am done with the whole thing.. We try to make up.. we try to remain friends.. but frankly I am tired of the bull shit. And I mean "I wasn't calling you to come and help me”
Ok hi, FUCK YOU. I don’t understand how a person can be such an awful bitch. Person A helped YOUUUUU out time and time again, and when she finally reached a breaking point, you’re going to terminate a friendship? Lets explain something shall we? All your friends talk shit about you and your money problems. None of them are even willing to help you out anymore, yet Person A still continued to, stupidddd girl. Yet when Person A ran into some problems and needed her OWN money back, you had the balls to give her shit? Person A should of taken everyones advice and told you to shove it and a simple “no” everytime you asked for shit.. Lesson learned..