ARE YOU HAVING HEAD SEX???
What is Head Sex?
Head Sex completely emotional/non-physical. It may never even lead to physical, but may cause as much agony or pleasure. It is when you are on the same wavelength as a person of the opposite sex, and its not about lust, its an emotional connection. An affair is physical, head sex is not. It tends to progress rapidly when you and that person have al ot in common. Telltale sign: SECRECY.
Take this quiz (that i did not make up) to see if you and that "platonic" friend of yours is sharing something more than a friendship.
1. Do you pay special attentionto how you look before you see your "platonic" friend?
2. Do you think crush-like thoughts, such as, "they'd like this outfit."?
3. Do you touch him/her in "legal" ways-like picking off lint from their clothes, or checking out their newly improved muscles?
4. Have you developed "mentionitis"-where you're tempted to insert their name in every 3rd sentence when with others?
5. Have your close friends started asking if he/she is really "just a friend"?
6. Do you tell your platonic friend details of your day before you tell your partner?
7. Do you find yourselves comparing notes on, or ever complaining about your partners to each other?
8. Do you play down how much time you spend with him/her when talking to your partner?
9. Has one of you said, "I'm attracted to you, but i would never act on it because you're attached"?
10. Would you be uncomfortable if your partner saw a videotape of the time you spend with this person?
If you answered "yes" to 5 or more questions, you failed.
A couple tips on ending this "head sex":
-Acknowledge it: Both of you know it's going on.
-Break it to them: Let each other know what's going on.
-Don't Embarass: Whoever's doing the newsbreaking, don't embarass the other person.
-Set limits: Make limits of how much time you spend with this person and other related things.
-Cold turkey: Best bet is cold turkey.
This may cause depression...
My personal input on this head sex deal:
I think it makes sense, but it's also bull. There is a VERY thin line between just having a really really good friend you get along with, and having head sex. I think there is no such thing as innocence in this world anymore. You can't even be really close to somebody without it being wrong. However...again, there is a very thin line there.
Head Sex completely emotional/non-physical. It may never even lead to physical, but may cause as much agony or pleasure. It is when you are on the same wavelength as a person of the opposite sex, and its not about lust, its an emotional connection. An affair is physical, head sex is not. It tends to progress rapidly when you and that person have al ot in common. Telltale sign: SECRECY.
Take this quiz (that i did not make up) to see if you and that "platonic" friend of yours is sharing something more than a friendship.
1. Do you pay special attentionto how you look before you see your "platonic" friend?
2. Do you think crush-like thoughts, such as, "they'd like this outfit."?
3. Do you touch him/her in "legal" ways-like picking off lint from their clothes, or checking out their newly improved muscles?
4. Have you developed "mentionitis"-where you're tempted to insert their name in every 3rd sentence when with others?
5. Have your close friends started asking if he/she is really "just a friend"?
6. Do you tell your platonic friend details of your day before you tell your partner?
7. Do you find yourselves comparing notes on, or ever complaining about your partners to each other?
8. Do you play down how much time you spend with him/her when talking to your partner?
9. Has one of you said, "I'm attracted to you, but i would never act on it because you're attached"?
10. Would you be uncomfortable if your partner saw a videotape of the time you spend with this person?
If you answered "yes" to 5 or more questions, you failed.
A couple tips on ending this "head sex":
-Acknowledge it: Both of you know it's going on.
-Break it to them: Let each other know what's going on.
-Don't Embarass: Whoever's doing the newsbreaking, don't embarass the other person.
-Set limits: Make limits of how much time you spend with this person and other related things.
-Cold turkey: Best bet is cold turkey.
This may cause depression...
My personal input on this head sex deal:
I think it makes sense, but it's also bull. There is a VERY thin line between just having a really really good friend you get along with, and having head sex. I think there is no such thing as innocence in this world anymore. You can't even be really close to somebody without it being wrong. However...again, there is a very thin line there.