You wanna be startin something?
Since wesa is attempting to secretly clear the air about what supposedly happened between us, I’ll gladly post my part of the story. And I won’t do it under friends lock either because I own my words and have nothing to hide.
Rule #1 of LJ: Don't make a filtered post that purposely includes people that you know are close to me and then ask people to keep your ridiculous rant quiet. You want to confront me, do it publically and use my name. You can go and whine to your friends on LJ, IM, IRL, email, etc. about the “injustices” I have caused against you, which is your perrogative but don't get angry that I found out about it. You are notorious for running your mouth about things that were supposed to be kept secret. This is why I never told you anything super secretive because I knew better. And I figured you were posting behind my back anyway, but don't you dare try to pit our mutual friends against me without them knowing it was me and then act all gloaty when they agree with you. That’s a real immature thing to do. Of course they are going to agree with you, you aren't telling the complete story and you made me out to be an evil person.
There are always two sides to every story and you completely blew this situation out of hand. You want to seek out approval from people, to be vindicated for the "wrongs" against you, at least post the whole story instead of a cryptical post about friendship. I'll give you credit for saying some good things in that post but the type of friendship we had was not a super close one so it is not fair to examine our friendship under that same microscope. We have known each other online for a couple of years and we knew each other IRL but we only hung out a couple times a year, nothing serious. Our relationship was mostly online. I will take responsibility for the comments I made but I will not apologize for their content because my intent was not to be rude, rather I was being factual and supportive. How you chose to interpret them is your choice, not mine.
Why is it that other friends on your social networking sites can disagree with you but when I do so I am an OMG A TOXIC FRIEND? If you feel like you are being constantly attacked for your thoughts based on my comments, why did you assume it was me who was making you feel that way? It's all in your head, I don't have any control over your thoughts and feelings, that is your responsibility. I’m sorry that we don’t live in your ideal world but I am pretty sure that if you were living in your ideal world, you’d find something new to complain about. It seems as if you can never be happy with everything, there ALWAYS has to be something that irritates you. You seem to take the passive aggressive route often and this is evidenced by your constant posts about your horrible neighbors, the damn kids at school and just general human behavior. And some of your posts made me lol because those people were being ridiculous at times and I tried to be supportive. I, among others would offer up advice and lately you would single out my advice and be snarky about it. But I chose not to let it get to me since I wasn’t the one with the problem.
I certainly do not expect ANY of our common friends to pick sides, they can either not care about this at all or say their piece or have a good lol. I certainly didn’t want to get them involved but you had to go and start talking about it. I have a hard time believing that people were asking you about it considering no one saw this go down. You can talk shit all you want about me through your friend locked posts and your IM’s, I could care less. But when you exaggerate the situation and try to ruin my reputation, I have to say something in my defense. Difference is, I can do it publically and you cannot. I learned a valuable lesson back in the day: don’t let what people say on the internet bother you. And definitely do not dole out anything that you can’t take back. That should be the golden rule of the internet. I’ve seen you be quite the witch on LJ before and either I lolled or participated. Whatevs, it’s the INTERNET SRS BUSINESS.
I will own everything I said in this post because I am not afraid of you. You wanted to start drama, here you go, I will end it for you. I’m sorry if you were offended by my comments, it wasn’t my intention to offend you and in return, I forgive you for being grumpy and self righteous on the internets. Now that I’ve said my piece, I am through.
**Essentially, wesa got butthurt over a comment I made in her FB earlier this week and unfriended me. She shared on FB that she thinks it’s completely disgusting when people clip their nails in public and I responded that I could think of worse things one can do in public. My intent behind the comment was not to be a bitch but to say that there are literally worse things one can do in public. Nail salons are considered public places, nails are getting clipped there all the time! I personally think getting smeared on the face with a bum’s feces would be on the top of my list of the most disgusting thing to do in public but, that’s just my opinion. She is using a social networking site to voice her opinions, stories, pictures, propaganda, etc., 24/7 and heaven forbid I have a differing opinion. I wasn’t the first person to have a differing opinion, but apparently it was not ok with her and she wrote back, asking me why every comment I make is negative or downplaying what she writes about. Really? I’d hesitate in saying every comment I’ve ever made in the history of our URL relationship has been “negative and/or downplaying” but this is what she wants to believe and I can’t change her thinking. She is now in the “victim” mode and thinks that everything I am saying is an attack even if I tell her that her smile radiates like a rainbow.
So I write back to remind her that we are on a social networking forum (that facilitates discussion!) and why couldn’t I have a different opinion, especially when others have had differing opinions before me. Also, I explained that I grew up in waiting rooms and one of my habits was to groom my nails and reminded her “to each their own.” She then wrote back and said she'll solve the problem by unfriending me from FB. So then I unfriended her from LJ, made a post about ultrasensitive people, told Zach what happened and went to bed. That was the end of the story until she decided to exaggerate the situation and complain about it behind my back to our mutual friends and now I have to clear the air. Happy Friday!
Rule #1 of LJ: Don't make a filtered post that purposely includes people that you know are close to me and then ask people to keep your ridiculous rant quiet. You want to confront me, do it publically and use my name. You can go and whine to your friends on LJ, IM, IRL, email, etc. about the “injustices” I have caused against you, which is your perrogative but don't get angry that I found out about it. You are notorious for running your mouth about things that were supposed to be kept secret. This is why I never told you anything super secretive because I knew better. And I figured you were posting behind my back anyway, but don't you dare try to pit our mutual friends against me without them knowing it was me and then act all gloaty when they agree with you. That’s a real immature thing to do. Of course they are going to agree with you, you aren't telling the complete story and you made me out to be an evil person.
There are always two sides to every story and you completely blew this situation out of hand. You want to seek out approval from people, to be vindicated for the "wrongs" against you, at least post the whole story instead of a cryptical post about friendship. I'll give you credit for saying some good things in that post but the type of friendship we had was not a super close one so it is not fair to examine our friendship under that same microscope. We have known each other online for a couple of years and we knew each other IRL but we only hung out a couple times a year, nothing serious. Our relationship was mostly online. I will take responsibility for the comments I made but I will not apologize for their content because my intent was not to be rude, rather I was being factual and supportive. How you chose to interpret them is your choice, not mine.
Why is it that other friends on your social networking sites can disagree with you but when I do so I am an OMG A TOXIC FRIEND? If you feel like you are being constantly attacked for your thoughts based on my comments, why did you assume it was me who was making you feel that way? It's all in your head, I don't have any control over your thoughts and feelings, that is your responsibility. I’m sorry that we don’t live in your ideal world but I am pretty sure that if you were living in your ideal world, you’d find something new to complain about. It seems as if you can never be happy with everything, there ALWAYS has to be something that irritates you. You seem to take the passive aggressive route often and this is evidenced by your constant posts about your horrible neighbors, the damn kids at school and just general human behavior. And some of your posts made me lol because those people were being ridiculous at times and I tried to be supportive. I, among others would offer up advice and lately you would single out my advice and be snarky about it. But I chose not to let it get to me since I wasn’t the one with the problem.
I certainly do not expect ANY of our common friends to pick sides, they can either not care about this at all or say their piece or have a good lol. I certainly didn’t want to get them involved but you had to go and start talking about it. I have a hard time believing that people were asking you about it considering no one saw this go down. You can talk shit all you want about me through your friend locked posts and your IM’s, I could care less. But when you exaggerate the situation and try to ruin my reputation, I have to say something in my defense. Difference is, I can do it publically and you cannot. I learned a valuable lesson back in the day: don’t let what people say on the internet bother you. And definitely do not dole out anything that you can’t take back. That should be the golden rule of the internet. I’ve seen you be quite the witch on LJ before and either I lolled or participated. Whatevs, it’s the INTERNET SRS BUSINESS.
I will own everything I said in this post because I am not afraid of you. You wanted to start drama, here you go, I will end it for you. I’m sorry if you were offended by my comments, it wasn’t my intention to offend you and in return, I forgive you for being grumpy and self righteous on the internets. Now that I’ve said my piece, I am through.
**Essentially, wesa got butthurt over a comment I made in her FB earlier this week and unfriended me. She shared on FB that she thinks it’s completely disgusting when people clip their nails in public and I responded that I could think of worse things one can do in public. My intent behind the comment was not to be a bitch but to say that there are literally worse things one can do in public. Nail salons are considered public places, nails are getting clipped there all the time! I personally think getting smeared on the face with a bum’s feces would be on the top of my list of the most disgusting thing to do in public but, that’s just my opinion. She is using a social networking site to voice her opinions, stories, pictures, propaganda, etc., 24/7 and heaven forbid I have a differing opinion. I wasn’t the first person to have a differing opinion, but apparently it was not ok with her and she wrote back, asking me why every comment I make is negative or downplaying what she writes about. Really? I’d hesitate in saying every comment I’ve ever made in the history of our URL relationship has been “negative and/or downplaying” but this is what she wants to believe and I can’t change her thinking. She is now in the “victim” mode and thinks that everything I am saying is an attack even if I tell her that her smile radiates like a rainbow.
So I write back to remind her that we are on a social networking forum (that facilitates discussion!) and why couldn’t I have a different opinion, especially when others have had differing opinions before me. Also, I explained that I grew up in waiting rooms and one of my habits was to groom my nails and reminded her “to each their own.” She then wrote back and said she'll solve the problem by unfriending me from FB. So then I unfriended her from LJ, made a post about ultrasensitive people, told Zach what happened and went to bed. That was the end of the story until she decided to exaggerate the situation and complain about it behind my back to our mutual friends and now I have to clear the air. Happy Friday!