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I have finally started to calm down after reading all that bullshit the other day.
(For more, the girl's username is tigermothgirl. It's all pretty much the same self righteous bollocks.)
Seriously, what is some people's problem?
Being married does not make you better than me.
Planning your baby does not make it better than mine.
Choosing to have this baby, with a man I have known for 6 months, was not an easy choice.
But it is the right one, and the one I'm sticking with.
If I didn't think I would cope, I would have chosen abortion (which is NOT selfish and barbaric, but a sensible valid choice, which I have made in the past without regret.)
I will raise my child to be a tolerant human being, not a judgmental snob.
We might not have savings and be able to shower it with expensive crap, but it will be loved and provided for, by us, and by it's grandparents who have offered to help.
I'm not going to turn down an offer of help to prove some kind of point, because I'm not an idiot, and if I do end up struggling I won't be afraid to ask for more support.
My life choices are nobody else's business.
I love Hamish, and we will love this baby.
Fuck you if you don't like it, our future has no room for negativity.
(For more, the girl's username is tigermothgirl. It's all pretty much the same self righteous bollocks.)
Seriously, what is some people's problem?
Being married does not make you better than me.
Planning your baby does not make it better than mine.
Choosing to have this baby, with a man I have known for 6 months, was not an easy choice.
But it is the right one, and the one I'm sticking with.
If I didn't think I would cope, I would have chosen abortion (which is NOT selfish and barbaric, but a sensible valid choice, which I have made in the past without regret.)
I will raise my child to be a tolerant human being, not a judgmental snob.
We might not have savings and be able to shower it with expensive crap, but it will be loved and provided for, by us, and by it's grandparents who have offered to help.
I'm not going to turn down an offer of help to prove some kind of point, because I'm not an idiot, and if I do end up struggling I won't be afraid to ask for more support.
My life choices are nobody else's business.
I love Hamish, and we will love this baby.
Fuck you if you don't like it, our future has no room for negativity.