For everyone affected by the cultural attitudes towards girls today, and/or annoyed by the "real girls do/are/become" assumptions/assertions out there...
please go read this.
I would link you to the metaquotes for it but the comments there are getting pretty dumb, and it cheapens what is a wonderfully supportive big-sisterly type of message to the girls of today. Here's the original, with all its phenomenal comments.
http://seanan-mcguire.livejournal.com/441098.html