Note to self...
...
just because someone wants to whine to me...
just because someone wants to drag me into their drama...
just because someone wants me to take their version of events as gospel truth...
...
that doesn't mean I have to even *respond*.
Their wish to communicate AT me does not incur an obligation to respond in any way.
If my lack of response results in them removing themselves from my life - I lose only some drama, which is actually a net gain in peace of mind.
FFS please remember this?
just because someone wants to whine to me...
just because someone wants to drag me into their drama...
just because someone wants me to take their version of events as gospel truth...
...
that doesn't mean I have to even *respond*.
Their wish to communicate AT me does not incur an obligation to respond in any way.
If my lack of response results in them removing themselves from my life - I lose only some drama, which is actually a net gain in peace of mind.
FFS please remember this?