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I've been talking to this guy for the past couple weeks. I think I like him a lot... but it's frustrating because I want him to be a certain way, but he's so not. So, should I just forget his flaws and "lack ofs" and just take what I can get to satisfy my current in-need-of-affection state of mind I'm trapped in, or should I just cut it off and admint to myself that maybe we're not a match? Well, here are the pros and cons:
PROS:
He has beautiful lips
He has such a big heart
He’s a giver, not a taker/Lover not a fighter
He's like, the sexiest Latino guy ever with light, sharp features
He makes me feel smart (which is also a con, see below)
He seems like a very faithful person when it comes to relationships
Uh... he's attracted to me I guess
GAWD! He's just sooo purdy!
CONS:
He won't kiss me, stating "It's too personal" - Whatever, Pretty Woman! UGH!
He's still in love with his ex-boyfriend (eh, so am I)
He sooo doesn't get my humour! - He hardly has a sense of humour
He doesn't respond to my displays of affection the way I want him to (that is, he hardly responds to them!)
He's a top/sometimes versatile (which always ends up meaning he'll bottom, just not for me 'cause I'm "too big")
He's not fully out to his family
He has a very nice body, it's just not, well, ripped
I get like ZINLCH intellectual stimuli from him
He's too attached to his cell phone
Uh... he’s a Cancer
The only affection he initiates is petting my head, occasionally, if I’m lucky, he’ll pull it
He’s got some annoying hip hop song as his answering message and ring tone
He can be stubborn
He never asks me questions
Damn it, why can’t he just be the image of him I created before I got to know him?!
PROS:
He has beautiful lips
He has such a big heart
He’s a giver, not a taker/Lover not a fighter
He's like, the sexiest Latino guy ever with light, sharp features
He makes me feel smart (which is also a con, see below)
He seems like a very faithful person when it comes to relationships
Uh... he's attracted to me I guess
GAWD! He's just sooo purdy!
CONS:
He won't kiss me, stating "It's too personal" - Whatever, Pretty Woman! UGH!
He's still in love with his ex-boyfriend (eh, so am I)
He sooo doesn't get my humour! - He hardly has a sense of humour
He doesn't respond to my displays of affection the way I want him to (that is, he hardly responds to them!)
He's a top/sometimes versatile (which always ends up meaning he'll bottom, just not for me 'cause I'm "too big")
He's not fully out to his family
He has a very nice body, it's just not, well, ripped
I get like ZINLCH intellectual stimuli from him
He's too attached to his cell phone
Uh... he’s a Cancer
The only affection he initiates is petting my head, occasionally, if I’m lucky, he’ll pull it
He’s got some annoying hip hop song as his answering message and ring tone
He can be stubborn
He never asks me questions
Damn it, why can’t he just be the image of him I created before I got to know him?!