time to vent boys and girls...

[fresh_battery]

here's the thing. i am a creature of habit. i eat the same thing at the same resturants. i watch the same t.v. shows that i tivo. and like carrie bradshaw once noticed of herself, i date the same guy over and over and over again. but is that so bad? i used to be the "no type" type, but lately, i feel like i've dated the tattooed, rock 'n roll boy

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[anonymous]

oh girl!! i used to think the same exact way!! for some reason, for about six years, i had to date dudes in bands or that were involved in the music scene somehow. i guess i didn't have to, but that is the crowd i hung around and that is just what i liked so naturally, i dated guys that were into that very same thing.

...until i met scott.

scott is nothing like any guy i have ever dated and that is hard for him. he has no tattoos, he listens to hip-hop, he wears timberlands and nautica, and he drives a bright blue jetta! haha. i said something the other day and i said "scene girl" or something like that and he said "what does scene girl mean?" hahaha. but you know what, i have truly found myself in him. ever since i have been dating him, my grades in school have exploded. i'm doing so well and i'm actually motivated about school. i have been more "myself" and i have felt more comfortable with myself. and overall, i've just had more fun in life. we go to clubs and dance together and we listen to hip hop together and we take fun trips together and it's just a whole new world that has been opened up to me. whereas before, i could never go to a club b/c i had a straightedge boyfriend who was so worried about the scene and whatnot. ya know?

i think it would be good for you to step outside that box because the box is what you are used to. take a leap, take a chance, and who knows....you might come out the happiest girl in the world. i know i am extremely glad i stepped outside the box. i seriously have never been so happy in my entire life and it's just so invigorating.

i'm here if you need to talk. i know we haven't talked in ages, but i'm here!

[fresh_battery]

aww, thanks! but you posted anonymous, and i have no clue who this is! haha.