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okay okay i have my ultra sound pictures, finally. i went into paint and drew out everything and put captions so you could know what you were looking at. now, keep in mind, the baby is only 5 months developed, so her skin is still not all the way developed and grown together, nor are her eyeballs and such. so if she looks like a little monkey, or
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and its not just 8/9 months thats hard. thats a human being you have to RAISE, not send off with a babysitter or parents, that YOU YOURSELF have to shape and mold to be a good, successful person. therse no more kalah. its all baby. everything you do for the rest of your life from here on is for one and one thing only. no more going out in the middle of the night to meet your friends, you arent gonna want to because you are going to want to sleep forever and ever all day every day! then you have to think of the cost of living just for the baby, not including you and whos ever it is..can you pay $23.49 for ONE pack of diapers at the cheapest place ever only for them to be gone like in 2 days? a can of formula costs $26 and all babies do is eat, so that one can will last maybe 2 or 3 days. doctor visits cost well over $100 with no insurance. if you are on your parents insurance, thats good for you but it will not cover your baby and babies are always sick. daycare for just ONE of my nephews costs $1,500 a month, and your baby would have to be in daycare if you plan on working, which you have to do or you will not be able to raise a child because DHR will take your baby if you cant provide for it. if they find any drugs in your system while your pregnant, they will take your baby from you the minute you give the last push. they will also snatch that baby right out of your arms if they even thought you were having people over getting fucked up or you yourself was getting fucked up. now with all that in mind, you still havent calculated the cost of strollers, car seats, changing tables, bottles, clothes, and shoes just for the baby. and then there are your expenses that you have to pay for as well like
rent, power, electricity, cable, phone bills, gas money, grocery money, car insurance......theres so much that you need to think about before you decide to have this baby kalah. for real. im pretty sure john is the dad, but think about it like this. if you two have had FIST fights before, which i know you have cuz you posted up on lj, is that healthy to be around a baby? is HE ready for a baby? are you ready to work with him the rest of your life to raise this child together? and finally, are you ready to be responsible for someone else's entire life, while in your tummy and even more when you have the baby?
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