Do's. & Don'ts. Ranting from my Psyche.
Women like to dress up.
Not necessarilly to turn heads or get hit on. Most of the time it's just to feel attractive to ourselves. Yes we have issues.
We do not do or make things specifically for anyone without telling you that we did so. So never assume that we dress with you in mind, most of the time it is just for ourselves. If we give you something you request, do not brag to others that they know you so well and did it just for you. If we did, we'll tell you. Do not make up your own story unless you know all the details from everyone ivolved and you include all those details. (I hate liars)
A man walks over to a woman and introduces himself and imediatly tells her how beautiful she is while she can't sit or stand still. Yes, this is a very nice complement, but when you keep complimenting it looses it's flavor and we know you're only after one thing. Stop while you're ahead, any further is CREEPY. And if you are ahead, it's a really good idea to pay attention to see if we are leaning your way before you continue or try something else at all!
If we say "No", it really means No, it does not in anyway mean, "Yes please chase me and puppy dog me or annoy the living shit out of me so that I have to get pissed off at you and wander somewhere else just to get away from you because deep down inside we both know I'm just teasing you."! My fucking hell do I see this alot lately!
When you guys are still talking to us as we are walking away, if you follow that is a good indication that we are heading towards security to boot your ass out of the building.
When we give you one word answers and look distracted or trying to be distracted, either find a more interesting topic of conversation and stop trying to grope or tell me how big my tits or how great my ass looks, or just go for a walk and think about why we're not interested.
Need a side note here, I am not talking about all women, cause we are not all the same.
I consider myself to be in a special group of women that is rare to find. A woman who will not lie to you, who will not play games to hurt you, who will tell you her most honest opinion because you are friends, who will treat a man the way he's supposed to be treated (the only problem with that one is finding a man who will do the same back), It's all we ever ask. If you want the special things, don't be an ass, hold us once in a while, if you complement what we're wearing and we tell you you're full of shit, just tell us we're an idiot and kiss us! Not really all that hard. Now most of the women in the world will not bend like we do. If you call them an idiot for not being able to take a complement they will kick your ass because most of the time they are Drama Queens.
(This note is about couples. Not for people trying to get down other peoples pants!)
I was going to rant more about the upper paragragh topic, but I've lost my interest. The last paragragh made me want to go take a shower and go put on a dress for my husband cause he likes it and makes him feel special. I married him because he is not the typical, god complex, asshole, hermit, Aries male. Yes he 'is' all of those things, but not the common or typical. He still has the charm after 3 years and 2 months.
Ok, I'm done being mushy after being rampagy...lol. I will rant more later.
Love you all.
Not necessarilly to turn heads or get hit on. Most of the time it's just to feel attractive to ourselves. Yes we have issues.
We do not do or make things specifically for anyone without telling you that we did so. So never assume that we dress with you in mind, most of the time it is just for ourselves. If we give you something you request, do not brag to others that they know you so well and did it just for you. If we did, we'll tell you. Do not make up your own story unless you know all the details from everyone ivolved and you include all those details. (I hate liars)
A man walks over to a woman and introduces himself and imediatly tells her how beautiful she is while she can't sit or stand still. Yes, this is a very nice complement, but when you keep complimenting it looses it's flavor and we know you're only after one thing. Stop while you're ahead, any further is CREEPY. And if you are ahead, it's a really good idea to pay attention to see if we are leaning your way before you continue or try something else at all!
If we say "No", it really means No, it does not in anyway mean, "Yes please chase me and puppy dog me or annoy the living shit out of me so that I have to get pissed off at you and wander somewhere else just to get away from you because deep down inside we both know I'm just teasing you."! My fucking hell do I see this alot lately!
When you guys are still talking to us as we are walking away, if you follow that is a good indication that we are heading towards security to boot your ass out of the building.
When we give you one word answers and look distracted or trying to be distracted, either find a more interesting topic of conversation and stop trying to grope or tell me how big my tits or how great my ass looks, or just go for a walk and think about why we're not interested.
Need a side note here, I am not talking about all women, cause we are not all the same.
I consider myself to be in a special group of women that is rare to find. A woman who will not lie to you, who will not play games to hurt you, who will tell you her most honest opinion because you are friends, who will treat a man the way he's supposed to be treated (the only problem with that one is finding a man who will do the same back), It's all we ever ask. If you want the special things, don't be an ass, hold us once in a while, if you complement what we're wearing and we tell you you're full of shit, just tell us we're an idiot and kiss us! Not really all that hard. Now most of the women in the world will not bend like we do. If you call them an idiot for not being able to take a complement they will kick your ass because most of the time they are Drama Queens.
(This note is about couples. Not for people trying to get down other peoples pants!)
I was going to rant more about the upper paragragh topic, but I've lost my interest. The last paragragh made me want to go take a shower and go put on a dress for my husband cause he likes it and makes him feel special. I married him because he is not the typical, god complex, asshole, hermit, Aries male. Yes he 'is' all of those things, but not the common or typical. He still has the charm after 3 years and 2 months.
Ok, I'm done being mushy after being rampagy...lol. I will rant more later.
Love you all.