the crooked loon... my own stalker?
there is a creeper in my life. at one point i was his friend. i was like oh what a nice gay boy! we can be friends.
no.
he was flaky and self-centered, and then one day he insuates wanting to have sex with me and goes on and on with all this insuating and hinting and out rightness too about the whole subject. and it creeped the hell out of me. i just brushed it off, but tried to keep my distance from him.
but no.
he moved onto my floor and quickly became best friends with my roommate. so he's always around. creeping and lurking. first he gets into my stuff. not ok. then he and heidi walk through my suitemates room a few times, without saying a word. just walk through the room and out the door. sketchy, right? but ok. so one day i come out of the shower and change in my room like normal. and then, he gets out of heidis bed, and he'd been in there the whole time without me knowing it at all. i felt so violated and didnt know what to say. they just kind of got out of the bed and left and i was like what the hell. and then, just last week, i find that the eyehole on my door has been turned around, and you can see my entire room, all the way around and to my bed, from the hallway. and i was freaked out and later in the day asked heidi if she knew how it happened. she laughs it off and says, oh yeah jonathan did that... i'm not really sure why. haha.
uhhh. no. not haha. like, i dont know how long it was like that, and if i hadnt noticed, how long it wouldve stayed. and what it would have been used for.
so i tell my RA, and i'd already told him the other stuff before. he's like thats not ok i'm gonnna tell the supervisor. and THEN, she tells him to tell me to just talk to jonathan and tell him my problems. that's it. nothing about sexual harrassment or tampering with property or privacy. just... IM supposed to just work it out. on my own. great.
so my parents are pissed and getting involved and i'm really interested to see how this all ends up. i hate his guts and never want him in my room ever again.
no.
he was flaky and self-centered, and then one day he insuates wanting to have sex with me and goes on and on with all this insuating and hinting and out rightness too about the whole subject. and it creeped the hell out of me. i just brushed it off, but tried to keep my distance from him.
but no.
he moved onto my floor and quickly became best friends with my roommate. so he's always around. creeping and lurking. first he gets into my stuff. not ok. then he and heidi walk through my suitemates room a few times, without saying a word. just walk through the room and out the door. sketchy, right? but ok. so one day i come out of the shower and change in my room like normal. and then, he gets out of heidis bed, and he'd been in there the whole time without me knowing it at all. i felt so violated and didnt know what to say. they just kind of got out of the bed and left and i was like what the hell. and then, just last week, i find that the eyehole on my door has been turned around, and you can see my entire room, all the way around and to my bed, from the hallway. and i was freaked out and later in the day asked heidi if she knew how it happened. she laughs it off and says, oh yeah jonathan did that... i'm not really sure why. haha.
uhhh. no. not haha. like, i dont know how long it was like that, and if i hadnt noticed, how long it wouldve stayed. and what it would have been used for.
so i tell my RA, and i'd already told him the other stuff before. he's like thats not ok i'm gonnna tell the supervisor. and THEN, she tells him to tell me to just talk to jonathan and tell him my problems. that's it. nothing about sexual harrassment or tampering with property or privacy. just... IM supposed to just work it out. on my own. great.
so my parents are pissed and getting involved and i'm really interested to see how this all ends up. i hate his guts and never want him in my room ever again.