I don't know what to do anymore..

Feb 27, 2005 00:16

What do you do when you can't get through to someone. I've always thought I was someone who was easy to talk to and people felt like they could come to, but its the complete opposite. I don't know what to do. What are you supposed to do when someone refuses to talk to you. How are you supposed to help them. I can't stand seeing them like this and seeing them in so much pain, because its SO evident they are, and yet they refuse to deal with it. I've been in the same situation, and just not wanted to deal and shut everything out, but it doesn't solve anything and just gets worse. And being on the other end of it now, I don't know how to take control and fix the problem. I'm so used to being on the other end.

Its hard. And its frustrating not being able to help those you care about the most. I'm worried. How are you supposed to get through to someone who won't let you in? Give them their space? Then you're neglecting and don't care......try to force them to talk? then they resent you because they just want to be left alone. Theres no solution. All I know is I need to do something...because I can't stand someone I care about so much being like this....I need to do something.
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