The Bum's Rush
So over the last month or so I've been renewing a friendship on my WOW game that had lapsed. Seeming nice guy who is from/lives in Ireland. Yummy accent. ;) Nice flirtation, then he got serious about things...
I started receiving cards.. then flowers.. and plant/card/stuffed animal/chocolate at work on Valentines.. Nice! Lovely! maybe..
I also started learning things about him that didn't bode well.. I bit of jealousy.. possessiveness. And a history that includes things I was uncomfortable by. The more I asked him to slow down the harder he pushed. All warning signs that set me into oooh no mode.
Tonight, I had turned on computer. Left up message I was going to shower. 45 min later, I had a missed phone call and 2 missed yahoo tells... 2nd one all pissy and whiny about me avoiding him etc...
That clinches it for me. I can tell abusive when I smell it now. Sent him a nice (ok so not nice) tell going, ok, you saw shower message, and you can get glad in same pants you got mad in. I don't do drama....
Oy. The migraine all day and that on top of it was not my idea of fun. But then, at least he set himself up with a nice concrete reason to go, go away little man...
I started receiving cards.. then flowers.. and plant/card/stuffed animal/chocolate at work on Valentines.. Nice! Lovely! maybe..
I also started learning things about him that didn't bode well.. I bit of jealousy.. possessiveness. And a history that includes things I was uncomfortable by. The more I asked him to slow down the harder he pushed. All warning signs that set me into oooh no mode.
Tonight, I had turned on computer. Left up message I was going to shower. 45 min later, I had a missed phone call and 2 missed yahoo tells... 2nd one all pissy and whiny about me avoiding him etc...
That clinches it for me. I can tell abusive when I smell it now. Sent him a nice (ok so not nice) tell going, ok, you saw shower message, and you can get glad in same pants you got mad in. I don't do drama....
Oy. The migraine all day and that on top of it was not my idea of fun. But then, at least he set himself up with a nice concrete reason to go, go away little man...