Healing Process
I think we might be starting to heal from Bob's death. I can't really speak for Nick. I wish I could get a bead on him, but he basically has decided to push all thoughts of Bob right out of his head and pretends that it never happened. (I know because this is exactly what he said) And sometimes something will remind him of Bob, and he'll kind of break down. It doesn't feel quite as empty in the house. I've stopped listening for him. I still feel sad, but it's not as acute.
Last Sunday, we went outside and lit a candle and burned a stick of incense where Bob is, and talked about him a little. Like the fact that he walked by a candle and lit his tail on fire, once. :) Nick planted a catnip bush above him. We're planning on turning that whole area into a catnip garden, and planting some flowers around there to make it really pretty.
I'm hopeful that I might get a job in these next couple weeks. I had a phone interview that went really well, and they said they'd call me next week to set up an irl interview. Then, I had one yesterday in Dallas that seemed to go pretty well. I have one tomorrow that's going to be about 3 hours. And this is after a phone interview and a 1.5 hour questionnaire. Damn. They'd better hire me after all that. :)
Last Sunday, we went outside and lit a candle and burned a stick of incense where Bob is, and talked about him a little. Like the fact that he walked by a candle and lit his tail on fire, once. :) Nick planted a catnip bush above him. We're planning on turning that whole area into a catnip garden, and planting some flowers around there to make it really pretty.
I'm hopeful that I might get a job in these next couple weeks. I had a phone interview that went really well, and they said they'd call me next week to set up an irl interview. Then, I had one yesterday in Dallas that seemed to go pretty well. I have one tomorrow that's going to be about 3 hours. And this is after a phone interview and a 1.5 hour questionnaire. Damn. They'd better hire me after all that. :)