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[fountainhead687]

I am incredibly and outragiously shocked. and frusterated, because I cant even talk about it. I mean, it would hurt people, and maybe not people that I like but people that I respect. well, I dont know what respect really means at this point. people that I would rather not see getting hurt, especially right now. oh man, I want to hint at this thing

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[kylemazoo]

i think it is important to respect people if they deserve it. but then again what is that. i kind of like the idea of saying you can like or not like a certain trait a person posesses but i also think it is important to respect a person for all of who they are. because even if you find out a good friend of yours cheat on their whoever, there is alot to learn from an experience like that ( considering the fact that they were sorryabout it.) even so if you like this person and find out something "bad" about them it is still a part of what makes them who they are, so i think it is still ok to repect someone like that. monnie this is a much harder concept than i ever thought.
i wonder my dear what brought this all up in you head?
i think maybe a good idea of how to figure out what you think respect is is trying to figure out how or why you think people should respect you and what that would look like to you.
what are you schocked about? is this what brought up the respect idea? i know i am not supposed to ask but i will tell you that i will still like and respect you if you told me because i think it takes alot for me to respect someone so it also takes alot to bring them down. another thing to ponder at this as well if someone looses your resspect what would it take to forgive them or re-earn their respect. anyways i love you tons and miss you alot. you know my email if you need to vent or something
i dont know if my post made much sense. i try to help. i dont think it worked.