Ugh this WHOLE situation frustrates me. Don't take this as me bitching at you, b/c I'm not. Josh and I have talked about this situation a few times. Apparently Jesse said he wanted to move back home b/c he thought you guys (Josh, Collen [you], maybe Anthony) did not want to move into a place w/him so that's just what he said. Really he just wants to move out of the Avalon apartment complex, and I have no idea why
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you know if you want to know what im doing you can always talk to me. It seems like If i leave everything will be F'd up... :/ I'm not trying to screw people over and I'm not mad or anything just talk to me if you want to know what I'm trying to do. Everything isn't set in stone yet and we still have 3 months. I wanted to go home to save more money for a townhouse/condo but an opportunity came up and it seems good so that's why im going for it. I don't want people pissed off cause I'm leaving. I'm not going to leave them in the dust and not help them out with another place if i decide to leave. just talk to me if you feel like there is issues or if josh has any problems he should come talk to me.
No it's okay. People made themselves clear. Josh is fine w/stuff for the most part. I just get frustrated and above all else do not want to see him have to struggle again. Your comments and other ppl's comments help(ed) me to gain a better perspective and understand where everyone is at in terms of thinking. So I am not mad.
In regards to Heathers commentbaname7April 27 2009, 15:53:52 UTC
The only thing I would like to comment on regarding your post is that one cannot expect someone to make the choices that you/josh/collen/anthony/ect need to be made as far as living goes. The life of the contract is whats important, as well as is making your intentions known to those you live with. Its your life so make your own decisions and make sure you honor any contracts that have ALREADY been made. Beyond that it is unfair and unrealistic to be expected to do something that you do not want to do. If Josh is told what IS REALLY going on then he can make the correct adjustments. Im not saying it will be easy, and it might even suck, but people have to live their own lives and make their own choices. And josh knows that. I know josh knows that. Just tell him what is going on so he can prepare.
Oh I figured you could help him pay rent if I moved out! (joking)
Im not planning on bailing on anyone. If Josh couldnt figure something out I would help him, but I see this as a great situation to make some changes for the better.
My life just isnt concrete enough to buy a place yet. I dont know where Im going to end up working, who Im going to end up dating etc etc. I just am not ready to move somewhere long-term, and thats why I cant consider buying the townhome with Jesse. I really dont see myself 30 years old and still living with roomates, and Im sure Josh is the same.
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I just have to figure out what Im doing...
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I just thought that should be clear.
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Im not planning on bailing on anyone. If Josh couldnt figure something out I would help him, but I see this as a great situation to make some changes for the better.
My life just isnt concrete enough to buy a place yet. I dont know where Im going to end up working, who Im going to end up dating etc etc. I just am not ready to move somewhere long-term, and thats why I cant consider buying the townhome with Jesse. I really dont see myself 30 years old and still living with roomates, and Im sure Josh is the same.
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Unless the Jap-asses want to move out after japan, which I dont see happening.
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