Yet again....People Suck

[fortheloveibear]

Why are you so mad? Upset, that I never made you the top priority all of the time? Does this world bleed just for you? Three words for every one that didnt get to share time with me, or didnt get enough with me, or is upset with the fact that SHIT ALWAYS happens to me..... "LIFE FUCKING HAPPENS

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[panmodal]

Andy, I'm not quite sure what you're so worked up about. Try to sit back and really look at what the situation is.

You and V. have been involved on various levels for several years, and that relationship has always been marked by your inconstancy. That's not an attack - I think you know me well enough to know that I don't say things just to be spiteful. I'm just saying what has been obvious to anyone watching.

I have little doubt that you have the best intentions in all that you do. I have little doubt that your emotions, when you express them, feel sincere to you at the time. But you don't follow through, Andy. When the sweat and cum have dried and the sun rises on another day, those good intentions evaporate. Things happen, Life happens. And you forget your promises and get on with you. That's a human failing - out of sight, out of mind - and you are correct that you can't be condemned for it

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[panmodal]

Let’s leave behind for now this incident with V. I think, when the dust has settled, it would be better for all involved to let it fade into the past and get on with the rest of their lives.

And that’s what I want to talk to you about, Andy: the rest of your life.

You have contributed to the genetic material of a child, Andy. Whether you grow into a parent, a father is yet to be seen.

I am not writing to you in anger, Andy. I am disappointed at the way things have turned out, but the outcome was too foreseeable for me to be surprised or offended. I am not writing to hurt you, though I think you may well read it that way, nor to judge you from a position of presumed moral authority. I have always liked you, Andy, and I want you to be happy in your life. For your sake, and for the sake of C. and your unborn son, I hope that you will take my words seriously:

From this moment on, your son must be the most important thing in your life, followed by C., followed only then by yourself. You cannot continue in your self-centeredness

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[pjpete]

Wow. I wish I could speak openly like that to Andy. I've known him over 10 years, but I've always stifled myself if not merely for the fact that I know, I personally don't like to hear ANYTHING from ANYONE about my relationships, my life, how something should be done, etc.

I'm not going to pretend I know the history or background here about their relationship, other then bits and pieces from each side, but your last statement really sums it up, for me atleast, and I don't doubt Andy is the same, and that is I have to learn things for myself through experience.

You have to let me fuck shit up to realize right or wrong, and sometimes those things tend to be relationships, which is an unfortunate thing, as that is one of the few things that cannot be easily replaced in this life.

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[fortheloveibear]

pete....blow me. what the hell was that supposed to mean?

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[pjpete]

See - it's comments like that, that keep me from speaking my mind to you all the time. Like I know you had no issue with telling me how you felt about Renee, but on the other hand, I didn't feel it was my place to say anything about Amy, even if I did see things differently - because I would have gotten that same type of reaction

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[fortheloveibear]

I dont quite believe that. But, on the other hand, I have never given you reason not to tell me what is on your mind. Because, trust me, atleast I know I can listen to what you have to say. Not everyone has that priviledge. But, me reading what you said, It was though you fucking agreeing with him. And the fact that someone insunuating that I am not going to be a good father, really FUCKING PISSED ME OFF, and OFFENDED me greatly. Atleast that is what part of what I got out of it. And second more, It isnt what you say, it is how you said. He could have worded shit differently. But he didnt. SO YOU ALL CAN KISS MY FAT WHITE ASS!

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[pjpete]

Oh, I see. No, I am not implying anything to the fact of what type of a father I think you will be.

You should know me better then that, or stop reading into what I say. Why does everyone do that? Heather included. I don't, say things with hidden meaning. I say what I mean, and mean what I say.

If your going to take that attitude with me, I really don't know what more to say, and anything else that I possibly could say would probabbly just piss you off more, as I seem to be adding fuel to the fire here as it were.

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[fortheloveibear]

We are very cool with each other. You have nothing to worry about, what so ever.

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[pjpete]

And as for you last remark..

White, yes. Fat? I dunno.. I think it's kinda cute, in a Adams Family, Uncle Fester kind of way.
*kisses*

[fortheloveibear]

"Andy, I'm not quite sure what you're so worked up about. Try to sit back and really look at what the situation is."

Well you are obviously not as intelligent as I originally thought.
Why dont you think about it, and you can answer your very own first question. As for everything else....I dont quite want to write about it now, for I will say things I dont mean.

You pissed me off,and really offended me, among other thoughts and such.

I have always liked you more than most friends I have ever had.
Cant say the same now....dont know where I stand.

[amoury]

I was ready to write a full and almost unallowed response from too many characters, in response to all this. But frankly anything I say will only add more fuel to the fire as pete proclaimed.
There's nothing I can say anymore. I need to just see this all as past, which I intend to. If we can be friends great, if we can't, oh well. There's nothing more that needs to be said.