What about you?
I guess I've got a few questions:
Are you open to meeting new people?
Are you open to meeting new people with whom you have no sexual interest?
Are you open to making new friends?
Are you open to making new friends with whom you feel no sexual attraction?
Realistically, how much time/what level of attention would you be able to invest in your new friendship?
(daily, weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, seasonal, annually)
Honestly, what level of involvement are you prepared to offer/capable of offering?
(best friends, good friends, casual friends, acquaintance only, civil contact/scene friend, "keep your enemies closer")
What is your level in the art of friend maintenance?
0. If it doesn't happen naturally or by someone else's effort, it doesn't happen.
1. I know how to make friends.
2. I know how to cultivate a friendship.
3. I know how to save a relationship.
4. I know how to maintain relationships.
5. I know when a relationship is over.
[music
|"And all those things that were so hard-won / I thought I would always keep / Now what do you think I see / Standing like a wall in front of me"]
[EDIT: html fixed to avoid confusion. "start" in an ordered list apparently is depreciated.]
[EDIT2: Feel free to steal this post for your own journal.]
Are you open to meeting new people?
Are you open to meeting new people with whom you have no sexual interest?
Are you open to making new friends?
Are you open to making new friends with whom you feel no sexual attraction?
Realistically, how much time/what level of attention would you be able to invest in your new friendship?
(daily, weekly, bi-weekly, monthly, seasonal, annually)
Honestly, what level of involvement are you prepared to offer/capable of offering?
(best friends, good friends, casual friends, acquaintance only, civil contact/scene friend, "keep your enemies closer")
What is your level in the art of friend maintenance?
0. If it doesn't happen naturally or by someone else's effort, it doesn't happen.
1. I know how to make friends.
2. I know how to cultivate a friendship.
3. I know how to save a relationship.
4. I know how to maintain relationships.
5. I know when a relationship is over.
[music
|"And all those things that were so hard-won / I thought I would always keep / Now what do you think I see / Standing like a wall in front of me"]
[EDIT: html fixed to avoid confusion. "start" in an ordered list apparently is depreciated.]
[EDIT2: Feel free to steal this post for your own journal.]