Band-aids
I tired to explain my frustration to her. Rather then just listening and absorbing exactly what my frustration is with this place and the mentalities of my friends, she just gives me advice that doesn't concern the problem i am facing inside. Her response are more like band-aids to place over the wounded situation; which aggravates me more than i can believe. That is what my mother does, and i have long since reached a developmental stage where parental consensus is the write solution. Band-aids don't fix problems, the biological background and inter-working of your generally healthy body does it with out you concentrating whatsoever on the repair of the injury. If i am not healthy inside (meaning i am depressed about my situation) how can things repair themselves? They can not readily do such a thing. Temporarily distracting yourself from the problem just proliferates the severity of the issue and further more placing a band-aid on a severe enough wound is not gonna do much is it?